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Old 08-26-2006, 07:45 AM
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A brother in my alumni chapter who died a few years ago was married to an Asian woman.

I saw maybe one white Alpha wife at convention.

I don't think it's too common in my fraternity.

(I see it all the time in APO, though.)
I dated a Korean girl in high school, but that was high school. Now? I haven't dated outside of my race. Actually I haven't dated at all. LOL. My schedule is too hectic. As far as the Frat, I've never seen a fraternity brother date outside of his race. I'm sure there are some, I just haven't run across any.
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Old 08-26-2006, 12:03 PM
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i always seem to date outside of my race, i guess there isnt enough spanish girls in sororities, oh well.
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Old 08-26-2006, 01:06 PM
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There are some cute Hispanic ladies in sororities, and I've dated them. However, if a guy dated black lady, he would probably be ostracized into quitting. I don't find them oh so attractive anyways so it doesn't really bother me.
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Old 08-26-2006, 01:09 PM
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There are some cute Hispanic ladies in sororities, and I've dated them. However, if a guy dated black lady, he would probably be ostracized into quitting. I don't find them oh so attractive anyways so it doesn't really bother me.

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Old 08-26-2006, 01:20 PM
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all the time, LOL
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Old 08-26-2006, 01:30 PM
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I have certain people on ignore. When you quote their ignorant comments, it defeats the purpose of me ignoring them because I still see their posts.
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Old 08-26-2006, 01:43 PM
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I have certain people on ignore. When you quote their ignorant comments, it defeats the purpose of me ignoring them because I still see their posts.
Lol glad to see you find that as ignorant as I do!
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Old 08-26-2006, 01:43 PM
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outside of the ostracizing comment...you can't really be mad at someone for being/not being attracted to what they like.
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Old 08-26-2006, 01:52 PM
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outside of the ostracizing comment...you can't really be mad at someone for being/not being attracted to what they like.
My problem isn't with the attracted v. not attracted part (although, come on, there is a wide range in every race), it's with the "Oh, well, it's okay for this attitude to take place in my fraternity since it doesn't directly affect me" attitude.
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Old 08-26-2006, 02:01 PM
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outside of the ostracizing comment...you can't really be mad at someone for being/not being attracted to what they like.
And if someone white would have made that comment, you'd be the first one to scream "ignorant".
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Old 08-26-2006, 02:04 PM
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And if someone white would have made that comment, you'd be the first one to scream "ignorant".
uhhhhh, isn't the guy white? and no, i'm not excusing his ignorance. but like i said....you still can't help what you are or are not attracted to.
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Old 08-28-2006, 08:59 PM
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outside of the ostracizing comment...you can't really be mad at someone for being/not being attracted to what they like.
True, but not only was the comment racist, he/she could have kept it to themselves.
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Old 08-28-2006, 09:23 PM
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True, but not only was the comment racist, he/she could have kept it to themselves.

How in the hell was his comment racist? Some of you morons throw around that term so loosely its ridiculous. You act as if its the same as calling someone an idiot.

Why is it SOOOOO wrong of him to say that he would be ostracized if he dated a black girl? Many social circles look down upon interracial dating....just as i'm sure some Greeks would too.....I know it is that way in many parts of the South. Looking down upon interracial dating doesn't make you a racist. Many people are brought up with the notion that it isn't proper.......and there is nothing wrong with that.

rac-ism  /-rey-siz-uhm/ :

1.) hatred or intolerance of another race or other races.
2.) a belief or doctrine that inherent differences among the various human races determine cultural or individual achievement, usually involving the idea that one's own race is superior and has the right to rule others.

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Old 08-26-2006, 03:15 PM
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There are some cute Hispanic ladies in sororities, and I've dated them. However, if a guy dated black lady, he would probably be ostracized into quitting. I don't find them oh so attractive anyways so it doesn't really bother me.
Yeah, I know what you mean, because most white guys give me the skeevies.
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Old 08-26-2006, 03:40 PM
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Yeah, I know what you mean, because most white guys give me the skeevies.
Exactly.
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