Sorority Shopping?

[OtterXO]

Originally Posted by ariesrising

So most PNAIs hide the fact they have met with more than one group (for the record, I consider meeting a group different from just contacting a group for info). This is the part that bothers me - if you don't think you're doing wrong by meeting (meeting, not just contacting) more than one group, then why keep it a secret?

That's a really good point. My feeling on that is if you feel like you need to hide it then you probably shouldn't be doing it. I can't imagine any alumnae chapter would be happy to know the PNAI was attending functions for AAs of multiple organizations. I know that if I were confronted with that situation in my alumnae chapter I would be very skeptical of the PNAI's sincerety about my organization.

[BadSquirrelBeta]

Originally Posted by OtterXO

That's a really good point. My feeling on that is if you feel like you need to hide it then you probably shouldn't be doing it. I can't imagine any alumnae chapter would be happy to know the PNAI was attending functions for AAs of multiple organizations. I know that if I were confronted with that situation in my alumnae chapter I would be very skeptical of the PNAI's sincerety about my organization.

Otter, I totally concur. And though I have always been PRO AI I want to make it clear that PRO AI shouldn't be taken for granted, exploited and shouldn't equal pushover...