Would you mourn a baby that was never born?

[squirrely girl]

i think it depends on the person - i have a cousin who has miscarried twice and doesn't refer at all to those experiences but i also know a woman who is adamanent that she has 7 children just that four of them are already in heaven (ala miscarring also).

i think for some people it would also depend on how far along they were in the pregnancy - a month, five month, complications during childbirth/stillborn? i think that would make a big difference for me as to how long i carried that experience with me.

- marissa