Question for the Fellas...

[PerfectVerse06]

Originally posted by marquise1911
Flag on the play!!! For a man to say that would set off every alarm in my heterosexual body. Why??? To say that means you have been staring. Why are you staring at me, let alone looking into my eyes?

I'm sorry if I offended everyone, but I live in Miami. The DL-fobia is deep here. Men will hit on you just like the above sentence and if you're dumb, you won't catch it until he asks you what your plans for dinner are. I once had some dude say, "Nice lips man, I bet the ladies love them." Ask yourself why is another man looking at my lips? Not surprisingly he later asked a co-worker of mine to express to me his interest. I reaffrim my previous statement, especially when addressing body parts, str8 men don't compliment each other like that.

We think this guy may be in a league of his own....

One of his favorite movies is "From Justin to Kelly" starring the winner and runner-up of American Idol LMBO!!!!

[marquise1911]

I beg to differ...
Being Pretty is a mindset. Not just in Kappa, but in the real world. Have you seen the finest women with the most ugliest men. That's because he has a pretty mindset. If you feel good about yourself and have the right outfit you will look like a celeb.

Case in point. The Ace off the last line. He was a complete nerd! Nerd I say. Glasses, bad clothes, and horrible shoes. But while he was persuing membership () people noticed that he changed the game up a little. Spent more time grooming himself, got better clothes, and started speaking out more. By the time he crossed he was a regular Romeo. He had aquired the pretty mindset, which can't be sold in stores nor stolen. Being around suave and klean kut people will make you wanna up your game a little. I've even seen it happen to women who started dating Kappas. They just all of a sudden start dressing better and keeping the hair done up all nice.

[marquise1911]

Originally posted by PerfectVerse06


We think this guy may be in a league of his own....

One of his favorite movies is "From Justin to Kelly" starring the winner and runner-up of American Idol LMBO!!!!

No I wouldn't put it past any man who walks around noticing body parts and compliment the men who own them.

[PerfectVerse06]

Originally posted by Senusret I
I honestly never really thought about it....I guess it depends on who receives the compliments. I always assumed people think "Wow, that was nice of Darden" but they might also think "Well, Darden would know."

I'll ask at work tomorrow.

Okay, cool! It will be interesting to find out what people think of this.

Originally posted by Senusret I
Um.....that right there would make me feel uncomfortable, LOL.

LMBO!!!

The guy 'claims' those sorts of compliments go over well with the fellas, but he could've been lying about that to save face in front of the straight guys in the group. He's confessed a few things to us, and the other guys have used those things to make fun of him, so telling all of us he's cool with complimenting a man that way has just given them more ammo to tease him with.

[Senusret I]

Originally posted by marquise1911
I beg to differ...
Being Pretty is a mindset. Not just in Kappa, but in the real world. Have you seen the finest women with the most ugliest men. That's because he has a pretty mindset. If you feel good about yourself and have the right outfit you will look like a celeb.

Case in point. The Ace off the last line. He was a complete nerd! Nerd I say. Glasses, bad clothes, and horrible shoes. But while he was persuing membership () people noticed that he changed the game up a little. Spent more time grooming himself, got better clothes, and started speaking out more. By the time he crossed he was a regular Romeo. He had aquired the pretty mindset, which can't be sold in stores nor stolen. Being around suave and klean kut people will make you wanna up your game a little. I've even seen it happen to women who started dating Kappas. They just all of a sudden start dressing better and keeping the hair done up all nice.

Nothing you have described makes a man pretty. Stylish, suave, sophisticated -- sure.

Ladies -- is Jay Z pretty?

[marquise1911]

Originally posted by Senusret I
Nothing you have described makes a man pretty. Stylish, suave, sophisticated -- sure.

Ladies -- is Jay Z pretty?

Who can judge what's pretty? It's all in what people perceive. Perception is reality! People perceive prettiness in ALMOST every man in KAPsi.

[Senusret I]

Originally posted by marquise1911
Who can judge what's pretty? It's all in what people perceive. Perception is reality! People perceive prettiness in ALMOST every man in KAPsi.

Dude.... "attractive" is not the same as pretty. I can agree that people can perceive attractiveness in almost anyone.

But "pretty" in a man is a very specific thing that is not synonymous with any traits that can be learned, such as sophistication or stylishness.

I'm not emotionally invested in this debate -- just REALLY wondering when "pretty" became a state of mind. It really, really is not.

[mulattogyrl]

Originally posted by Senusret I
Nothing you have described makes a man pretty. Stylish, suave, sophisticated -- sure.

Ladies -- is Jay Z pretty?

HAYLE NAW

Proceed

[PerfectVerse06]

Originally posted by Senusret I
Ladies -- is Jay Z pretty?

No way!! But his confidence and swagger make him look good in women's eyes.

[CrimsonTide4]

Originally posted by mulattogyrl
HAYLE NAW

Proceed

Ditto!!!!

He dresses nicely, that's about it.

[teena]

Originally posted by marquise1911
Who can judge what's pretty? It's all in what people perceive. Perception is reality! People perceive prettiness in ALMOST every man in KAPsi.

Me

Pretty= You, and the other Kappas on this site

NOT PRETTY= The three hood Kappas that were at my momma's house this weekend that didnt know how to end a party.

I will not comment on the last statement, you pretty rascal

[marquise1911]

Originally posted by teena
Me

Pretty= You, and the other Kappas on this site

I will not comment on the last statement, you pretty rascal

Thanx!

[PerfectVerse06]

Originally posted by teena
NOT PRETTY= The three hood Kappas that were at my momma's house this weekend that didnt know how to end a party.

Shouldn't have offered them sammiches and red kool-aid. You see how they made themselves at home LOL!!

I hope you've learned your lesson. It was a honest mistake. BUT You know how the saying goes...Fool me once, I'll beat yo azz. Fool me twice, I'll beat yo azz again.



Or something like that.

[FeeFee]

Originally posted by PerfectVerse06
Shouldn't have offered them sammiches and red kool-aid. You see how they made themselves at home LOL!!

I hope you've learned your lesson. It was a honest mistake. BUT You know how the saying goes...Fool me once, I'll beat yo azz. Fool me twice, I'll beat yo azz again.



Or something like that.

BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA @ the saying.

[marquise1911]

Originally posted by Senusret I
Dude.... "attractive" is not the same as pretty.
Webster defines pretty as: Pleasing or attractive in a graceful or delicate way.

Example A:
Brad Pitt= Pretty Boy
Vin Diesel= Not

Although most women find them BOTH ATTRACTIVE, Vin Diesel is not concidered "pretty".

Brad is "pretty" because he is always well groomed, stylishly dressed, and is....NOT A BRUTE.

But "pretty" in a man is a very specific thing that is not synonymous with any traits that can be learned, such as sophistication or stylishness.

One learns to be graceful and delicate (I hate those words). In the case of men, we learn our grooming habits and sense of style.

ExampleB:
Timberland Boots= A bit thuggish/rugged
Fiagaro wing-tipped lizard skin boots=stylish/pretty

I'm not emotionally invested in this debate -- just REALLY wondering when "pretty" became a state of mind. It really, really is not.

No. it's a way of life that stems from a way of thinking or in other words a state of mind.