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Originally posted by Taualumna
Question: Mr. Tau just revealed to me that he can't tell some family members of his about our relationship because I'm not white and Jewish. Has anyone experienced this? I have relatives that won't approve of me dating Mr. Tau either (in fact, some relatives prefer that I date a Chinese guy of the same cultural background (i.e. family from Hong Kong), but I really don't care what they think! Should Mr. Tau care?
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Ohhhh -- Not cool.
I suppose it depends on your relationship stage. If you guys are really serious he needs to be able to defend you to his family. If he can't do it now, he'll never do it.
Then, it also depends who it is;
If they are old great aunts who are stuffy who you will never see (unless they die and leave you money -- esp if they leave you money), then let them believe whatever they want. Just don't send them pictures.
If they are people that you will see, then it's really bad.
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