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Originally posted by KAPPAtivating
I actually agree. If the relationship is purely physical, then it doesn't matter about intellect. However, the couple which we were referring to were engaged or married. I believe that once you enter that realm of relationships, physical attraction has to be supported by something else. Otherwise, once I've you've got your back broke in, then you just need to go home. Men and women will never fully understand each other b/c we are two different species and think differently(I'll never know what it is like to be pregnant...thank God), but I do what is like to be followed in the "high-end" shops. That is all I am pointing out. But I believe "if you like it-I love it". Do whatever works for you
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This is a valid concern from a worldly perspective. So, it depends on whether or not a relationship is based in God or in man. A relationship based in God automatically has bridges to the inevitable gaps faced by all people - regardless of the distance. So, what we consider to be smaller (the gap between men-problems and women-problems) as well as what we consider to be bigger (the gap between couples of varying races, ages, educational backgrounds, etc.) are completely covered in God.
One thing I am learning is that I have to be extremely patient (as I am often reminded by my fiance) because we DO have very different perspectives and methods of communication.
But, to say that a white woman can't provide enough support to a black man in a serious relationship is taking God completely out of the equation. (Of course, if that's where you stand, I know where you're coming from.)
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