I can't condone what you are doing....

[sugar and spice]

Originally posted by ilovemyglo


I didn't say I was trying to get in the middle of it- she just keeps coming to me to talk about him and how much fun she is having. I asked to think about how she would feel if that had been her father and that had happened to her mother but she said "it's different!" and my reply was "not to his kids".

But thanks for the input.

From now on, just respond to every mention of this situation with, "I don't really want to discuss this with you" and eventually she'll get the hint. I think that the real problem here isn't what your friend is or is not doing, it's the fact that you've expressed that the situation makes you uncomfortable and she isn't respecting the boundaries and shutting up. If I knew one of my friends had a moral problem with one of my behaviors, I'd at least respect her enough to not discuss the issue in front of her any more than I possibly had to.