Needing advice about joining

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I'm agreeing with kddani here. Remember while although it's almost always good to encourage someone to rush, and to wish them good luck, advise them to follow their heart and all that jazz, it's best not to say things like, "Any group would be lucky to have you" when in fact we have not the faintest idea of who the OP is. It can instill false hope that will make her look back and go, "But so and so said they would be lucky to have me! Why didn't I get a bid?" At which point she will be directed to James's thread answering that question and then will burst into tears and never be the same again.


This is not to say that the OP is such a loser - this is a general example.

mv93 - I would personally advise you to get your GPA up for your own benefit, and not to join the other house. If my sorority was someone's last ditch effort, I'm not sure I'd want them to join. You don't sound the least bit interested in them for themselves. If you have been seen as an honorary, and you get your GPA up, you never know what opportunities could present themselves in the future.