Guys' mentality

[twinstars]

I think you're doing the right thing. At least it's what I would do in that situation. I always try to judge a guy's intentions and motives by his ACTIONS and nothing else. What he says or what others say doesn't matter... just look at what the guy actually DOES. Does he call you? Does he approach you when he sees you around campus? Does he ask you out on dates, or invite you over to his place? Guys who LIKE a girl, do all of these things. If he's not doing this stuff, at least the way I interpret it, he doesn't like you. No point in you throwing yourself at him, then. If he knows you're into him and that you would be totally receptive to anything nice he did (such as asking you out, or calling you to chat), yet he STILL doesn't take any action, then he just doesn't like you. Get the message, and move on. What's really sad is when girls just can't get the message.