You are probably a really nice average girl and all . . . but . . .
I think you like the attention and are looking for ways to justify remaining in contact.
Or maybe you like the very tiny drama this is? PErhaps being able to talk to your friends about this and having them wrapped up in your problem makes you a center of attention?
Because everytime you talk to him, even by just answering, you encourage him. Even if you just pick up the phone to tell him to stop calling, you encourage him.
If he is truly suicidal, which I doubt, he is going to end his life regardless of what you do. He'll come up with some reason, like a flat tire or something.
You are way to invested in your
break-up. You are broken up, its over, move on. You guys are broken up and you are still talking to him, talking about him, and writing about him. Thats uhm . . . well maybe not insane, but certainly not the actions of someone really trying to move on with their life.
Honestly, like winneythepooh said, just avoid contact. ITs virtually impossible for someone to reach you if you are actively trying to avoid contact.
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Originally posted by christiangirl
Oh, because we're all friends together. Actually my best friend (who gave him my number) is his best friend. He tells her all the time how good I make him feel, but when he started creeping me out, I kept it to myself, not putting our business out there. So to her, it's one-sided, no one except the pastor (who has relocated to Kansas) knew what was really going on. Since this is the first time she's hearing about this, she doesn't know what it used to be like so she can't see why I'm worried.
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