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Originally posted by ShamikaT
Please reassure my decision, so I can print this out and show this to my sorors,
Friends, and my family.
I just recently crossed in another BGLO, but Zeta is in my heart, has been in my
heart, and always will be in my heart. I will do whatever it takes. Even if I have
to officially change my name. People have the nerve to act all funky and stuff.
My sorors has abandoned me. I’m disappointed and Shocked that My granny
(who is a Zeta) is against my decision the most.
Thank you so much.
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Ms. ShamikaT,
I have seen that many people have read this and have not responded, but I wanted to say something.
You made the adult decision to become a member of an organization, knowing that you had a greater interest in another. So accept the consequences that have came as a result. You can't expect the members of your organization, who may have a love for yall's organization, to understand your "love" for another. The foundation of yall's bond is the organization, and you must have made it clear to them that you wish you had pursued another.
Accept responsibility of your actions and realize the effect it is having on you and those around. Only a woman can make the decision to commit herself to something for life, and you have done that. So now all you can do is deal with it as a woman. You live and you learn.
The next time you have a strong desire to do something, you will know the repercussions of "settling for less". Maybe this will give you more motivation to remain focused on what you really want.
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