Yall, I need some support
 

There is nothing that you can do. You made your decision and you have to live with it. If Zeta was in your heart all along why didn't you pursue her? This is why I tell people all the time be sure about your decision because there is no going back. *smh*

Re: Yall, I need some support
 

Ms. ShamikaT,

I have seen that many people have read this and have not responded, but I wanted to say something.

You made the adult decision to become a member of an organization, knowing that you had a greater interest in another. So accept the consequences that have came as a result. You can't expect the members of your organization, who may have a love for yall's organization, to understand your "love" for another. The foundation of yall's bond is the organization, and you must have made it clear to them that you wish you had pursued another.

Accept responsibility of your actions and realize the effect it is having on you and those around. Only a woman can make the decision to commit herself to something for life, and you have done that. So now all you can do is deal with it as a woman. You live and you learn.

The next time you have a strong desire to do something, you will know the repercussions of "settling for less". Maybe this will give you more motivation to remain focused on what you really want.

:eek: :eek: you can not be serious:confused:
WOW:eek:

You deserve to be a MATURE WOMEN and take care of your Responsibility!

You are where you are and since you have matured as you say it's time to make the best of your situation.

This can't be serious....
Is it: play a joke on GC day?
I am waiting for a post that says "SIKE" any minute now....

SIKE :p


Shamika,

Oh well. You can always support Zeta events and endeavors but as an XYZ, lol.

'Hole Up Screw!

Nobody and I repeat nobody owes you anything! What do you mean you "deserve forgiveness and support". Yea anybody can forgive you, because Jesus forgives but that does not change any of the consequences you will have to endure.

Forgiveness does not mean you are not going to be held accountable.

How can you expect anyone to "support" your change of mind and you could not even "support" yourself.

I think you need to really take a minute, sit back, and THINK about what you did, how you did it, and who you did with. Right now you are too emotional and obviously not thinking straight, since you think your actions don't deserve a reaction. All this could have been avoided had you been proactive in your pursuit of the organization that you had "in your heart".

okay you are forgiven....what do you think is going to happen now? you can't possibly think you can become a Zeta now.....

i'm with the person who said this must be a joke.....okay you got us, i'm laughing, LOL :rolleyes:

RIGHT!

NEXT!

NO, these kinds of thingd DO NO HAPPEN ALL THE TIME and whoever lead you to believe that lead you WRONG! Stop playing! You wanted one org, but settled for another org because their members were attractive:confused: what kinda bullisht are you on:rolleyes:

BLUPIZZAZZ is that you:confused: