My mother in law use to go everywhere with us. We never had a moments peace. We got married in Vegas, with the whole family, friends, etc. My family and friends left the morning after our wedding-- she and my f-i-l stayed an extra day. They called our room at 7am to go to breakfast-- my husband said yes (don't get me started) and we ended up speding the whole day with my in laws and the best man --i was livid-- i bawled all day long and no one could figure out why! (i didn't think anyone could be that dense) I couldn't get away from the woman!
She has sinced moved to Florida, and she doesn't ever come back up here. My father in law visits frequently (and stays too long) but she now can't understand why we won't come there. I tell her I get two weeks of vaca- she gets 3, i don't want to use up my vaca to go there-- she thinks it is easier for us to travel with 2 kids, then it is for her abled ass to get on a plane and fly here!
Mother in laws can be hell--- you are good if your husband takes your side!! As long as that happens everything will be ok.
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