Regrets
So I joined a sorority last year and was really excited about I thought i had truly found my home like so many people on GC talk about, but as the year went on I found myself realizing that the soroity i signed up for and thought i was joining is NOT what i am now a member. My national org is a good NPC sorority that i am INCREDIBLY proud to be a member of, my local chapter however is not. When i started to have misgivings i started doing some reading on our constituion and policies realizing that we have violated MANY things in our national and local constitution that if we had followed the rules on would of eliminated a LOT of problems we experienced last semester.
So now its the start of a new year and to say im not looking forward to going back to the chapter would be an udnerstatement, its at the point where I dont even feel comofrtable recruiting new girls when i kno the real side of our disogranized disfunctional chapter.
I know that no one here can truely understand the situation or tell me what to do but i personally refuse to leave the chapter and give up my affiliation with the national org that I am incredibly proud to be a member of all because of my issues with my local chapter.
So the adivde im looking for from the many older more experienced NPC women on GC is do i stay shut up and just go with it being unhappy wuth the chapter or do i try and make suggestions for change to turn my chapter into something that would actually live up to and be a good representation of our nationals name???
*i'm sorry if this is confusing ive debated asking GC for advice for a long time and its an emotional topic for me. If anything needs clarification i would be more than happy to clarify*
Thank you in advance!!!
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