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			Hello today ABC called me to come have dinner with them but I had already made plans with a girl in XYZ for dinner that same night so I told the girl in ABC that I had dinner plans already but I'd like to come on a different night and she said I could next week.  While I'm pretty positive I'd rather be in ABC was it rude that I told them I already had plans.  Is it basically just telling them youre not interested in their house or do I get respect points because I didnt seem desperate to cancel plans to go to their house.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	
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