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10-27-2006, 01:48 AM
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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS
Well you will be missing out on a lot of good women then.
But maybe women won't want to be with you because you call them "babe."   |
LOL. I get my share of ladies.
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10-27-2006, 01:50 AM
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Originally Posted by delph998
Okay, Pretty Boy! I guess I believe you.
I think that men and women can truly be just friends; however in most cases, one person likes the other.
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delph998 I can't agree with you more. Someone likes someone for more than friends. You are so right.
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The world system is in direct opposition to God and His Word — PrettyBoy The R35 GT-R doesn’t ask for permission. It takes control, rewrites the rules, and proves that AWD means All-Wheel Dominance — PrettyBoy
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10-27-2006, 01:52 AM
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I love it! 
On a serious note, my father tells me all of the time that I have too many male friends and that may prohibit me from being in a relationship. I've cut a lot of these friends down over time. |
Good girl, good girl. Keep kuttin' those male friends back. 
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The world system is in direct opposition to God and His Word — PrettyBoy The R35 GT-R doesn’t ask for permission. It takes control, rewrites the rules, and proves that AWD means All-Wheel Dominance — PrettyBoy
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10-27-2006, 11:25 AM
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LOL. I get my share of ladies.
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LOL. 
"All hail, to the King of Hypermasculinity...they all bow down to your prowess."
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10-27-2006, 12:39 PM
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Good girl, good girl. Keep kuttin' those male friends back. |
You're something else, PB! 
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10-27-2006, 01:25 PM
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I'm not sure if it was mentioned earlier in the thread, but the only female friends who are seriously "just friends" are the sisters, cousins, and girlfriends of friends that I already have. And if my friends broke up with their girlfriends that I'm cool with, those females wouldn't be my friends any more. I'd be nice to them, but there wouldn't be much to talk about. It's a simple "man law" *looks at clock, gets more impatient for happy hour*
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10-27-2006, 02:04 PM
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I DO NOT allow my beaus to have female friends for the reasons mentioned in this thread. If I ever find out, I WILL chop him up and throw him down the garbage disposal! I do not play with that mess.
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10-27-2006, 02:13 PM
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Originally Posted by ShamikaT
I DO NOT allow my beaus to have female friends for the reasons mentioned in this thread. If I ever find out, I WILL chop him up and throw him down the garbage disposal! I do not play with that mess.
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Geesh. Good luck on being able to control which gender a grown ass man's friends are. He'll still befriend women, he just won't tell YOU about it.
And while he's lying to you about not having platonic friendships with women, he'll just go ahead and cheat on you too since he's getting away with hiding something anyway and will be "chopped up" whether it's platonic or not.
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10-27-2006, 02:47 PM
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I agree with DSTChaos.
You can't control what your significant other is doing when you all are not together. Trust is a huge component of a successful relationship. And if you have those ground rules before you get into the relationship, you may not need to be with him.
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10-27-2006, 04:07 PM
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Originally Posted by PhrozenGod01
I'm not sure if it was mentioned earlier in the thread, but the only female friends who are seriously "just friends" are the sisters, cousins, and girlfriends of friends that I already have. And if my friends broke up with their girlfriends that I'm cool with, those females wouldn't be my friends any more. I'd be nice to them, but there wouldn't be much to talk about. It's a simple "man law" *looks at clock, gets more impatient for happy hour*
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Are you married? Just asking...
LADIES, THIS MAN IS READDDYYYY!!!!
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10-27-2006, 04:11 PM
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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy
I don't think men and women can be friends. They can be associates but not friends. Well...maybe in some rare cases, but I've never had that luck. I've tried to be friends with women and they always have wanted more. They'll seem to be friends with me, but as soon as I find interest in another woman as more than friends, they get jealous, and the whole time I'm thinking "Wow, I thought we were just friends."  |
I'm sorry, but you post that kinna thing, I havta see it to believe it...
You are talkin' good game but are you willin' to put dem "nutz" on the table lak dat dere?
Show me how "pretty" you are? And nunna this stuff where I do it first... 'Cuz folks who are on here know me... And you're single and turning girls on... I'm not.
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10-27-2006, 06:01 PM
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Originally Posted by AKA_Monet
Are you married? Just asking...
LADIES, THIS MAN IS READDDYYYY!!!!
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I'm way too young to be married. Maybe not too young, but way too immature. Maybe in a few years, when I've worked longer and act more responsible.
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10-27-2006, 06:05 PM
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I'm way too young to be married. Maybe not too young, but way too immature. Maybe in a few years, when I've worked longer and act more responsible.
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Yeah... Whatever...
Homegirl plays her cards right with you, you'd go down on bended knee...
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10-27-2006, 06:11 PM
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Originally Posted by PhrozenGod01
I'm way too young to be married. Maybe not too young, but way too immature.
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I figured you were too young and most men don't get mature enough until they are in their mid-20s to 30s.
I respect anyone who can admit to needing more life experiences before making a life commitment like that.
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10-27-2006, 06:50 PM
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Originally Posted by AKA_Monet
Yeah... Whatever...
Homegirl plays her cards right with you, you'd go down on bended knee... |
If by playing her cards right, you mean she bought me an XBox 360, I'd think about it. I am so kidding. She'd have to buy me some games too. 
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I figured you were too young and most men don't get mature enough until they are in their mid-20s to 30s.
I respect anyone who can admit to needing more life experiences before making a life commitment like that. |
I don't know. I can be in a mature relationship, but marriage is probably less about love and more about business in my eyes. When I listen to people much older than me, and seemingly much more thorough, vent about marriage/family issues, I can only nod my head and pretend to understand.
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