Is she pregnant?

[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by Xanthus

. Yeah, I know, I should have worn a rain coat, but shit happens in the heat of the moment. I didn't have any condoms where we were, and we both thought the pill would work because it worked before. She's a clean girl so I know she doesn't have any stds. I've known her for a while, we were just friends for the longest time, so it's not like I don't know anything about her.

I'm sorry, but you opened yourself up for this sort of thing by posting on the interwebz:

You seriously have got to be kidding me.

"Well we just didn't have any and she's a clean girl so I know she doesn't have anything (many STDs don't have a "look.")

This, ladies and gentlemen, is how people end up with AIDS.

Be lucky that a child is all that you got out of your carelessness.

I hope this thread reminds peeps to wrap it up. Seriously (for more reasons than just not having a baby).

[cheerfulgreek]

Originally Posted by Xanthus

I read the posts and I just want to tell all of you thanks for responding. Before I get started, I just have to tell 33girl that when I pmed you, you probably got about 50 of the same messages from me. Haha sorry about that. I didn't know why it wasn't showing message sent. I realized there's an option for that. I was wondering what the hell happened. Anyway, thanks again for your advice.

I know this is a dumb thread, but here, good advice is given so I posted it. According to the pregnancy test she purchased at the store, she's is indeed pregnant. I found out the next morning after I started this thread, I just didn't post because I was and still am pretty bummed out about it. I didn't bring up the fact that it might or might not be mine. Chicks freak at that shit. I don't know how I can bring it up to her that I want to get a blood test after the kid is born. When she told me, she then asked me what I wanted to do. I told her that it's up to her. She freaked and said she was not getting an abortion if that's what I'm thinking. I didn't tell her, but to be quite honest with you, that's what I thought she was talking about. She was talking about us. I don't want to be with her as far as a relationship goes. Yeah, I know, I should have worn a rain coat, but shit happens in the heat of the moment. I didn't have any condoms where we were, and we both thought the pill would work because it worked before. She's a clean girl so I know she doesn't have any stds. I've known her for a while, we were just friends for the longest time, so it's not like I don't know anything about her. Financially, I'm not worried, because I have a decent job. It's just really fucked up knowing I have to deal with her. Before anyone jumps all over me for this, I've already accepted that I brought it on myself. I guess my biggest concern is finding out if it's mine. Kevin, more likely than not, I'll pm you in the future for other questions I know I'll have in regards to this.

Guys thanks again for responding.

Huh? I thought you were going to at least come back and say the condom slipped off or something. You didn't wear one AT ALL. That's so gross. But then again, so are your posts in that TMI thread, so I don't know why I'm surprised. You're really gross and so is she. Bleh!

[tld221]

Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

Huh? I thought you were going to at least come back and say the condom slipped off or something. You didn't wear one AT ALL. That's so gross. But then again, so are your posts in that TMI thread, so I don't know why I'm surprised. You're really gross and so is she. Bleh!

way to not be judgemental CG1

[cheerfulgreek]

Originally Posted by tld221

way to not be judgemental CG1

Huh? That's not gross to you? Frankly, I don't think I'm being anymore judgemental than any of you. A 30 something year old man posting and laughing about his feces and now he post that he doesn't use a condom with some random girl? If that's not disgusting then I don't know what is.

[33girl]

I'm not sure if you were aware, but TMI means Too Much Information. TMI - get it? If you don't want to hear about things like that, don't read the thread. I don't.

And read the posts - this is someone he knows well, not a "random girl."

[MysticCat]

Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

Frankly, I don't think I'm being anymore judgemental than any of you.

Don't you have some zoo employees to irritate for not knowing enough about the DNA sequences of apes?

Xanthus, sorry you got the news that you got. I'm with Kevin -- there''s no need for any of us to pile on you now. It is what it is, and all you can do is move forward. Kevin has given you some very good advice. Good luck.

[Troll Buster]

Originally Posted by Xanthus

I read the posts and I just want to tell all of you thanks for responding. Before I get started, I just have to tell 33girl that when I pmed you, you probably got about 50 of the same messages from me. Haha sorry about that. I didn't know why it wasn't showing message sent. I realized there's an option for that. I was wondering what the hell happened. Anyway, thanks again for your advice.

I know this is a dumb thread, but here, good advice is given so I posted it. According to the pregnancy test she purchased at the store, she's is indeed pregnant. I found out the next morning after I started this thread, I just didn't post because I was and still am pretty bummed out about it. I didn't bring up the fact that it might or might not be mine. Chicks freak at that shit. I don't know how I can bring it up to her that I want to get a blood test after the kid is born. When she told me, she then asked me what I wanted to do. I told her that it's up to her. She freaked and said she was not getting an abortion if that's what I'm thinking. I didn't tell her, but to be quite honest with you, that's what I thought she was talking about. She was talking about us. I don't want to be with her as far as a relationship goes. Yeah, I know, I should have worn a rain coat, but shit happens in the heat of the moment. I didn't have any condoms where we were, and we both thought the pill would work because it worked before. She's a clean girl so I know she doesn't have any stds. I've known her for a while, we were just friends for the longest time, so it's not like I don't know anything about her. Financially, I'm not worried, because I have a decent job. It's just really fucked up knowing I have to deal with her. Before anyone jumps all over me for this, I've already accepted that I brought it on myself. I guess my biggest concern is finding out if it's mine. Kevin, more likely than not, I'll pm you in the future for other questions I know I'll have in regards to this.

Guys thanks again for responding.

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by Xanthus

I didn't bring up the fact that it might or might not be mine. I don't know how I can bring it up to her that I want to get a blood test after the kid is born.

She's a clean girl so I know she doesn't have any stds. I've known her for a while, we were just friends for the longest time, so it's not like I don't know anything about her.

I guess my biggest concern is finding out if it's mine.

[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

I think the majority of us are way ahead of you on the "WTF?"

See this post by me, lol (with several other WTF posts to follow):

http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...9&postcount=59

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by KSUViolet06

I think the majority of us are way ahead of you on the "WTF?"

See this post by me, lol (with several other WTF posts to follow):

http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...9&postcount=59

LOL you and I are --->here<---. What has me confused is if he "knows" she's a clean woman, "knows" that she doesn't have any stds, and feels confident enough to have sex with her without a condom, then why is he concerned that he may or may not be the father? The two don't match. Based on his last post, he's saying that he "knows" she hasn't slept with anyone else, but then he's saying she may have since he now wants a blood test.

Xanthus, is this a joke, man?

ETA: Xanthus, I'll ask you. Why do you want to get a blood test if she's so clean and hasn't screwed another dude? I see what you did. You waited until her panties were wrapped around her knee caps, got the nookie, and now that you got the call "I'm pregnant" you don't want to deal with the responsibility. Dude, please.

[dreamseeker]

again my dude, please learn from ur mistakes.and get that paternity test.

[tld221]

Originally Posted by KSUViolet06

I'm sorry, but you opened yourself up for this sort of thing by posting on the interwebz:

You seriously have got to be kidding me.

"Well we just didn't have any and she's a clean girl so I know she doesn't have anything (many STDs don't have a "look.")

This, ladies and gentlemen, is how people end up with AIDS.

Be lucky that a child is all that you got out of your carelessness.

I hope this thread reminds peeps to wrap it up. Seriously (for more reasons than just not having a baby).

KSUViolet06 = my hero.

seriously Xanthus, did you watch ANY afterschool specials growing up? those need to make a comeback, cause Degrassi: TNG isnt getting through.

"she said she was on the pill"
"we were in the heat of the moment"
"ive known her for a long time, were friends"
"shes a clean girl, she wouldnt have any STDs"
"im not worried about money because i have a decent job"

and the list goes on.

[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by tld221

KSUViolet06 = my hero.

seriously Xanthus, did you watch ANY afterschool specials growing up? those need to make a comeback, cause Degrassi: TNG isnt getting through.

"she said she was on the pill"
"we were in the heat of the moment"
"ive known her for a long time, were friends"
"shes a clean girl, she wouldnt have any STDs"
"im not worried about money because i have a decent job"

and the list goes on.

Thanks, I try!

I really am not trying to be mean, but unless you grew up in an 'abstinence only' sex ed district or something, or your parents were those people who signed a paper saying that you could not participate in sex ed, you have been hearing the same INFO OVER AND OVER since at LEAST middle school.

*Wrap it up.
*Even if she says she's on the pill, you still should wrap it up.
*There's no such thing as "she looks clean."
*AIDS and many other STDs don't have a "look."

I mean, it's all High School Health 101.

Said it before and I'll say it again: Wrap it up kids. And ladies, be smart enough to insist that he do so.

[Troll Buster]

Originally Posted by KSUViolet06

I think the majority of us are way ahead of you on the "WTF?"

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

Xanthus, is this a joke, man?

ETA: Xanthus, I'll ask you. Why do you want to get a blood test if she's so clean and hasn't screwed another dude?

Originally Posted by Xanthus

I was going to just make this a post and not a whole thread, but I'm a little worried. I've seen a lot of great responses to a lot of "question threads" so your help would be appreciated. Remember the chick I was talking about a few months ago? The one I really "thought" I liked? Some of you do. Well, she was costing me too much money, so I felt that we were incompatible. She was fine with that, so I hadn't heard from her until Sunday night. She told me she missed her period. At first she thought she could have been late, but now she says she missed it. I don't know how this works, especially when she "supposedly" was on the pill. She told me she's going to buy one of those pregnancy test today, but I don't know how accurate those things are? If she missed her period, does that necessarily mean she's pregnant? She also says I was the only guy she was having sex with. How accurate are those tests? Help me out here, I'm worried shitless.

I'm also removing my letters from my siggy just in case.

Originally Posted by Xanthus

I read the posts and I just want to tell all of you thanks for responding. Before I get started, I just have to tell 33girl that when I pmed you, you probably got about 50 of the same messages from me. Haha sorry about that. I didn't know why it wasn't showing message sent. I realized there's an option for that. I was wondering what the hell happened. Anyway, thanks again for your advice.

I know this is a dumb thread, but here, good advice is given so I posted it. According to the pregnancy test she purchased at the store, she's is indeed pregnant. I found out the next morning after I started this thread, I just didn't post because I was and still am pretty bummed out about it. I didn't bring up the fact that it might or might not be mine. Chicks freak at that shit. I don't know how I can bring it up to her that I want to get a blood test after the kid is born. When she told me, she then asked me what I wanted to do. I told her that it's up to her. She freaked and said she was not getting an abortion if that's what I'm thinking. I didn't tell her, but to be quite honest with you, that's what I thought she was talking about. She was talking about us. I don't want to be with her as far as a relationship goes. Yeah, I know, I should have worn a rain coat, but shit happens in the heat of the moment. I didn't have any condoms where we were, and we both thought the pill would work because it worked before. She's a clean girl so I know she doesn't have any stds. I've known her for a while, we were just friends for the longest time, so it's not like I don't know anything about her. Financially, I'm not worried, because I have a decent job. It's just really fucked up knowing I have to deal with her. Before anyone jumps all over me for this, I've already accepted that I brought it on myself. I guess my biggest concern is finding out if it's mine. Kevin, more likely than not, I'll pm you in the future for other questions I know I'll have in regards to this.

Guys thanks again for responding.

[Troll Buster]

Originally Posted by KSUViolet06

I think the majority of us are way ahead of you on the "WTF?"

See this post by me, lol (with several other WTF posts to follow):

http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...9&postcount=59

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

LOL you and I are --->here<---. What has me confused is if he "knows" she's a clean woman, "knows" that she doesn't have any stds, and feels confident enough to have sex with her without a condom, then why is he concerned that he may or may not be the father? The two don't match. Based on his last post, he's saying that he "knows" she hasn't slept with anyone else, but then he's saying she may have since he now wants a blood test.

Xanthus, is this a joke, man?

ETA: Xanthus, I'll ask you. Why do you want to get a blood test if she's so clean and hasn't screwed another dude? I see what you did. You waited until her panties were wrapped around her knee caps, got the nookie, and now that you got the call "I'm pregnant" you don't want to deal with the responsibility. Dude, please.