1. Your sorority did not prevent your members from receiving bids from other sororities. RFM doesn’t work that way. Had the other orgs they preffed placed them high on their list, they would’ve received bids from those orgs. The members who think your org prevented them from getting their dream bids need to be set straight.
2. Most chapters have an eclectic membership. Everyone is not model gorgeous, everyone is not from the same city, everyone is not a nursing major…you get the point, yet somehow they get along. As you said, everyone won’t be best friends with everyone else, but they, at the least, tolerate each other.
From what you wrote, people have reached out to your executive officers, and chapter advisors, and nothing has changed. I suggest contacting your national headquarters. You need some national officers to visit your chapter to assess the problem and come up with a plan for your membership to follow. If you know of other members who are noticing the same issues, enlist them to contact your headquarters too.
In the meantime, could you and your friends within the chapter plan and implement some sisterhood events? Ask permission from your exec officers. If there is already a sisterhood chairperson, ask to work with her to form a sisterhood committee and work together.
Good luck.
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