I believe it depends on the chapter. That is definitely one courtesy that I strongly feel should be observed.
The other side of the coin is that some groups believe the woman is a young adult, and so calling someone else to tell them about her recruitment is an invasion of her privacy.
One stance or the other is not right or wrong, just saying why different groups may do different things.
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