The other side of the coin is that some groups believe the woman is a young adult, and so calling someone else to tell them about her recruitment is an invasion of her privacy.
One stance or the other is not right or wrong, just saying why different groups may do different things.
And we know there are PNM's who tell mom they were released rather than tell mom they didn't want to join her chapter.
And we know there are PNM's who tell mom they were released rather than tell mom they didn't want to join her chapter.
Thank you for sharing this side of things, it is something I hadn't considered. I can imagine that there are some families where this might just be the easiest course of action for the PNM. Sadly.