COB and how these bids work!

[DeltaBetaBaby]

Also, tons of women never have the "AHA moment" during recruitment! You are making friends, and genuine friendship takes time. In fact, I would argue that having the "AHA moment" sets you up to be disappointed once you get into the daily life of the chapter. We call that "unicorns pooping rainbows syndrome" around here, and you may be much better off thinking, "yes, I like these women and these are the beginning of real friendship" than "OMG these women are the greatest thing that ever happened to me and everything is going to fall perfectly into place with no effort from me or them."

[33girl]

You are DEFINITELY on the right track wanting to meet as many groups as possible!!

Agree with pinksequins that if a group is giving you the used car salesman treatment and pressuring you to sign right away, just say no. Any group that is advocating you not looking at all the options open to you might not be one you want to be part of anyway.