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Originally Posted by Sciencewoman
I agree with this advice. Given that ngsu has posted about past emotional concerns and troubles unrelated to recruitment, I am standing by my advice to please seek professional counseling on campus.
I think this goes beyond recruitment disappointment or "the grass is greener on the other side of the fence."
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I have to agree with my sister here. The OP has shared about her past troubles and may struggle with how to keep things in perspective.
Yes, it stings when something that was hoped for doesn't come to fruition. However, agonizing over it doesn't change what's happened. My sincere advice for you, ngsu, is to lick your wounds and then go make the very best of what your sorority has to offer. If after a few weeks you are still struggling with these thoughts, I do earnestly encourage you to seek out counseling at your campus health center. There's nothing wrong with chatting with a neutral third person who can help you sort out your feelings and put things into perspective.
Best wishes to you.
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