Can I get the same experience being in a sorority if I can't live in their house?

[ree-Xi]

Originally Posted by Vitashort

I said it is not as big of a concern because most people get accepted in the schools I have been to. In the one before me everyone got accepted and the one I go to most people do. I'm sorry I'm just not too worried about getting in. I like to be prepared for when I do. It might come off cocky, but it's not. If I do get in and then don't know what to expect that isn't a good thing either. I think you are confused as to what I meant, but that is okay. Have a good night!

That's not what the Magic 8 Ball tells me, but if you believe it to be so, good luck with that.

Question: Is Vitashort going to receive a bid?

[Vitashort]

Originally Posted by ree-Xi

That's not what the Magic 8 Ball tells me, but if you believe it to be so, good luck with that.

Question: Is Vitashort going to receive a bid?

Aww that was cute, but doesn't make sense because I never said I was getting in 100 percent I just said I chose not to worry about it. It's like people on here want you to stress and worry about it. Some sororities where I live accept everyone, it may not be the exact sorority of your choice, but they accept everyone. I'm not the type to stress about it when I know how good my chances are. Also your magic ball knows nothing about my school. Enjoy the rest of your night and thanks for the good luck wish

[Shellfish]

Then why lock yourself into an unbreakable lease?

[ree-Xi]

Originally Posted by Vitashort

Aww that was cute, but doesn't make sense because I never said I was getting in 100 percent I just said I chose not to worry about it. It's like people on here want you to stress and worry about it. Some sororities where I live accept everyone, it may not be the exact sorority of your choice, but they accept everyone. I'm not the type to stress about it when I know how good my chances are. Also your magic ball knows nothing about my school. Enjoy the rest of your night and thanks for the good luck wish

[Old_Row]

If you know so damn much about your school and Greek Chat doesn't, why do you keep coming back here and asking the most ridiculously lame questions?

[ASTalumna06]

Originally Posted by Old_Row

If you know so damn much about your school and Greek Chat doesn't, why do you keep coming back here and asking the most ridiculously lame questions?

Goooood question

[Vitashort]

Originally Posted by Shellfish

Then why lock yourself into an unbreakable lease?

Because I wouldn't have a choice. During recrutiment I am not automatically living with them, I need somewhere to live and I can't commute.

[AOII Angel]

No sorority. Anywhere. Accepts everyone. We all have criteria for membership. You do not know that criteria, and despite what rumors may abound on your campus, you do not know who these groups give their invitations to. PNMs do not have any idea nowadays either since they no longer get all their invitations and have to decline the extras. Some of the women that have full schedules and aren't going back to the lowly chapter that they turn their little noses up at didn't have an invitation there in the first place. They may invite back more women but certainly not everybody. *Off my soapbox*

[Vitashort]

Originally Posted by Old_Row

If you know so damn much about your school and Greek Chat doesn't, why do you keep coming back here and asking the most ridiculously lame questions?

Well if you read my post correctly you would see the person didn't answer my question and instead went off topic about me being a junior which I explained wasn't an issue because I spoke to someone. So once I told them it wasn't an issue and I wasn't stressed about getting in they went off on that. Again not answering my question. I'm not saying I know everything I just know certain things people are asking me to find out which I already know. I just want to know if someone can get the same experience being in a sorority if they live in a dorm. But of course some people on here continue to go off topic NOT answering my orginal question and are volatile.

Only a couple people actually answered my question. If you have a problem with me asking certain questions you aren't obligated to read them, but seeing how some of you love to start drama on here while you are older adults, mostly, it doesn't surprise me that you do.

[Vitashort]

Originally Posted by AOII Angel

No sorority. Anywhere. Accepts everyone. We all have criteria for membership. You do not know that criteria, and despite what rumors may abound on your campus, you do not know who these groups give their invitations to. PNMs do not have any idea nowadays either since they no longer get all their invitations and have to decline the extras. Some of the women that have full schedules and aren't going back to the lowly chapter that they turn their little noses up at didn't have an invitation there in the first place. They may invite back more women but certainly not everybody. *Off my soapbox*

The last school I went to did and this was said from about 5 people in that sorority that I talked to. They do it where everyone goes somewhere. It might not be allowed or seen as the sorority type thing to do, but they did it. So no, they were not rumors. But thank you for your insight. If you could answer my orginal question though that would be great. Thanks!

[AOII Angel]

Originally Posted by Vitashort

Because I wouldn't have a choice. During recrutiment I am not automatically living with them, I need somewhere to live and I can't commute.

Originally Posted by Vitashort

The last school I went to did and this was said from about 5 people in that sorority that I talked to. They do it where everyone goes somewhere. It might not be allowed or seen as the sorority type thing to do, but they did it. So no, they were not rumors. But thank you for your insight. If you could answer my orginal question though that would be great. Thanks!

I amend my original post to state there is ONE place that will place everyone who signs up. But nowhere else does. I don't care if 5 people told you the sky is made out of cotton candy, it isn't true.

[ree-Xi]

Originally Posted by Vitashort

The last school I went to did and this was said from about 5 people in that sorority that I talked to. They do it where everyone goes somewhere. It might not be allowed or seen as the sorority type thing to do, but they did it. So no, they were not rumors. But thank you for your insight. If you could answer my orginal question though that would be great. Thanks!

You shouldn't need to even ask this question, because it's common sense.

OF COURSE you can enjoy your sorority membership if the the chapter house and you do not live in it. Even sorority chapters with houses have members living outside the house. And what about the scores of chapters without houses? Do you think that all of those members have crappy experiences simply because they don't live in, or don't even have the option of living in, a sorority house? Not every likes living with a lot of people, so that experience and preference will vary as well.

Now stop obsessing about something you cannot control.

[Vitashort]

Originally Posted by AOII Angel

I amend my original post to state there is ONE place that will place everyone who signs up. But nowhere else does. I don't care if 5 people told you the sky is made out of cotton candy, it isn't true.

Well maybe that one place is that place. I wouldn't be able to say unless I knew if it was the same school or not. Again I don't understand why this is going off topic.

Anyways..If anybody has had the experiences I am speaking of in terms of living in a dorm vs being in a sorority house please let me know. Thank you.

[Old_Row]

Originally Posted by Vitashort

Well if you read my post correctly you would see the person didn't answer my question and instead went off topic about me being a junior which I explained wasn't an issue because I spoke to someone. So once I told them it wasn't an issue and I wasn't stressed about getting in they went off on that. Again not answering my question. I'm not saying I know everything I just know certain things people are asking me to find out which I already know. I just want to know if someone can get the same experience being in a sorority if they live in a dorm. But of course some people on here continue to go off topic NOT answering my orginal question and are volatile.

Only a couple people actually answered my question. If you have a problem with me asking certain questions you aren't obligated to read them, but seeing how some of you love to start drama on here while you are older adults, mostly, it doesn't surprise me that you do.

Originally Posted by Vitashort

The last school I went to did and this was said from about 5 people in that sorority that I talked to. They do it where everyone goes somewhere. It might not be allowed or seen as the sorority type thing to do, but they did it. So no, they were not rumors. But thank you for your insight. If you could answer my orginal question though that would be great. Thanks!

All of these awesome sorority girls you know in real life should be able to answer your lame questions. You don't need the Greek Chat know nothings to answer them.

[Vitashort]

Originally Posted by ree-Xi

You shouldn't need to even ask this question, because it's common sense.

OF COURSE you can enjoy your sorority membership if the the chapter house and you do not live in it. Even sorority chapters with houses have members living outside the house. And what about the scores of chapters without houses? Do you think that all of those members have crappy experiences simply because they don't live in, or don't even have the option of living in, a sorority house? Not every likes living with a lot of people, so that experience and preference will vary as well.

Now stop obsessing about something you cannot control.

Thank you, that was on topic and helpful. I know I can't control it. I just wanted to see if the same experience can be had. I know freshman start off that way, but they have more years to bond with others and that was my concern. It wasn't common sense to me and a few others worried about the same thing because people say that when you live with people it forms a better bond, which is why people in clubs aren't usually that close because they only see each other a couple times out of the week. Also there are so many girls in certain sororities I was worried they couldn't possibly bond with everyone, especially if they aren't living with them because it makes it easier if they lived together I would think