Always a PNM, never a sister.

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It's Membership Selection; the nitty gritty of how it happened in this scenario, and what really transpired, we won't ever know. I hardly think the OP is going to out herself on this thread. I'm on the fence about the veracity of the OP, myself.

Fact of the matter to me is that the OP is unlikely to receive a bid from her preferred chapter, DZ. There are five other chapters at her school, and, from all appearances, she has essentially rejected them all (including her legacy chapter) in favor of DZ for two years running.

I'm with ellebud and gee_ess. You better believe people talk and bad things happen. I know first-hand of similar situations on my own campus. HOWEVER I am not about to blast it all over the Internet. Discretion... for the love of Mike, discretion. Don't bother asking me, I am a Scorpio, I'll never tell.

And parents have minimal input/influence into/on their (adult) children's behavior or friendships. Oh God, don't get me started on that.

Old_Row, I still write letters and send a lot of notes and cards as well. When you have a friend who's incarcerated for life, that is the best way to communicate between visits. And I've found that people enjoy receiving hand-written notes. I know I do!