Always a PNM, never a sister.

[DeltaBetaBaby]

Originally Posted by honeychile

I can absolutely see how the letter affected the sophomore recruitment. As they say, everybody knows somebody who knows somebody who knows the President. If one person told one other person, be assured that at least one person in every sorority knew about that letter within a day or two.

Okay, but there is a big difference between "Suzie PNM did this horrible thing" and "Patty Active from XYZ hates Suzie PNM". If the OP actually did something horrible and it got around, she is not giving us all of the facts. If she didn't, then I have a really hard time believing every chapter would drop her over a personal conflict.

Also, the very chapter that hated her so much is the one that invited her back twice?

[WhiteRose1912]

Originally Posted by DeltaBetaBaby

Also, the very chapter that hated her so much is the one that invited her back twice?

Wasn't that her legacy chapter? Might just be courtesy.

[KDCat]

If you have a reputation for certain behaviors, and that reputation is wide-spread, a bid is probably not in your future.