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It seems in the years since I was a collegian, the importance of bigs/little (pledge moms and daughters back in my day) has gotten a little silly. Their role, as I see it, is to guide you through the pledging/initiation process and to help you build connections in the sorority. Some will be weepy best friends for the next 60 years, but a lot are just not that important.
And it sucks when your realize someone else is liked more than you (or perceived that way anyway), but the fact is you're going to have that happen throughout your life. She may not realize she's being insensitive and rude, but there's no conversation that includes anything like "why don't you like me more?" that's going to end well. Put your emotional eggs in some other sisters' baskets and try to be a better big when it's your turn.
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