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[33girl]

Originally Posted by southernbelle14

actually... I said at my school it is considered fat. Everyone here took that as me saying I think it's fat. I was just stating my school's standards.
But no one here actually reads accurately. They just read what they want to hear.

If you go to school there and you don't find this offensive, which you didn't seem to from your subsequent posts, it is to be surmised by any reasonable human being that these are YOUR standards as well.

[southernbelle14]

Originally Posted by 33girl

If you go to school there and you don't find this offensive, which you didn't seem to from your subsequent posts, it is to be surmised by any reasonable human being that these are YOUR standards as well.

Yeah I came in bigger than everyone else (about a size 6 when all my friends were a size 0-2). I now have an eating disorder. It obviously doesn't affect me at all
These unfortunately are just the standards I have to live with.

[33girl]

Originally Posted by southernbelle14

Yeah I came in bigger than everyone else (about a size 6 when all my friends were a size 0-2). I now have an eating disorder. It obviously doesn't affect me at all
These unfortunately are just the standards I have to live with.

You're awfully cavalier about eating disorders. That's disgusting.

[southernbelle14]

Originally Posted by 33girl

You're awfully cavalier about eating disorders. That's disgusting.

You're an awfully judgmental bitch for knowing nothing about me. You disgust me. You have no idea what I'm dealing with or how I feel about it. So keep your reprimands to your self.

[33girl]

Originally Posted by southernbelle14

You're an awfully judgmental bitch for knowing nothing about me. You disgust me. You have no idea what I'm dealing with or how I feel about it. So keep your reprimands to yourself.

Then don't put winky/smiley faces on your posts about eating disorders. If you don't understand what something means, don't use it. (Translation since you don't, apparently) Winky/smiley face means "ha ha, just kidding, hope you liked the joke." Your post said to me (and most likely to most people) that you were kidding about having an eating disorder and found the whole concept of EDs a great giggle. If that isn't what you meant, you really need to edit your post or delete it.

[southernbelle14]

Originally Posted by 33girl

Then don't put winky/smiley faces on your posts about eating disorders. If you don't understand what something means, don't use it. (Translation since you don't, apparently) Winky/smiley face means "ha ha, just kidding, hope you liked the joke." Your post said to me (and most likely to most people) that you were kidding about having an eating disorder and found the whole concept of EDs a great giggle. If that isn't what you meant, you really need to edit your post or delete it.

It was used in a sarcastic way.

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by southernbelle14

It was used in a sarcastic way.

I know you were attempting sarcasm but it failed miserably, not only because of the subject matter but because of your short tumultuous (LOL) presence on GC.

[33girl]

Originally Posted by southernbelle14

It was used in a sarcastic way.

Well, it didn't translate. Being sarcastic on here (or in real life) when no one really knows you or your manner doesn't usually go over too well. Just FYI.

[melindawarren]

Originally Posted by southernbelle14

Yeah I came in bigger than everyone else (about a size 6 when all my friends were a size 0-2). I now have an eating disorder. It obviously doesn't affect me at all
These unfortunately are just the standards I have to live with.

This is ridiculous. How old are you, anyway?

Personally, I think you're just embarrassing yourself, your sorority and whatever school you attend.

As for "standards you have to live with," umm, what? That's ridiculous, too. I can't imagine a school where people think a size six is fat. Like, really? How tiny is this school (# of people-wise) that this opinion is so pervasive? What happens to a girl who's a 6? Is she suddenly "the fat girl" and that's it?

This is ridiculous. I'm not saying southernbelle14 is a troll, but still, we're all feeding her wayyyyy too much. Especially if she goes to a school where a size 6 is "fat."