I like the SEC in terms of history & also a lot of fraternity chapters but that's not restricted to SEC, not so much sororities, which are large also.
Honestly 70-115ish is solid for any greek org. You have enough money to operate at a high level, but you also have few enough people to be close to them & avoid too much cliqueiness as long as you really stay on top of it.
Disclaimer: Seriously, no offense to chapters bigger or smaller than that, I'm just stating an opinion.
Disclaimer2: why are disclaimers necessary?
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Originally Posted by preciousjeni
As someone in an interracial age gap (more than 15 years) marriage, let me be the first to tell you that anything that happened between you and your lovely is completely on y'all. Nothing anyone outside of the relationship says has any bearing, whatsoever, on the success of the relationship.
You didn't end the relationship because of "constant shit." You ended it, because it wasn't a good relationship.
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Of course there's more to it then that. I'm far from imperfect, but she had some issues about the age thing beyond just the age thing between us & beyond the constant shit from outside, that compounded with some family stressors to put it beyond dealing with anymore. It's a painful situation for both of us, and ultimately about a huge laundry list of things, the vast majority of which were less about our direct one-on-one relationship than... well just other outside things.
In any case, I appreciate the understanding. I'm quite confident though that GC is not the place to go for therapy.
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