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Originally Posted by Alumiyum
I've been around long enough to know that sometimes people behave very differently on the internet than they would in real life, including many long time posters (at least I sure as hell hope that's the case). I'm just stating that I personally cannot see why it's such a big deal, and that she can very well be a wonderful addition to the Greek community.
That being said, as I advised earlier, I do think she should stop posting and just become a reader.
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Originally Posted by Alumiyum
To be honest, I don't think this is THAT big of a deal. It isn't like she came in here and said that our mothers were hamsters and fathers smelt like elderberries. Were she going through recruitment at my school I certainly wouldn't find her to be some sort of pariah just for this if she were otherwise a desirable PNM. Samantha, I suggest you just stick to lurking to gather information from now on. You've said your peace, but unfortunately you won't be able to shake your first couple of threads. By all means continue to use the search function because there are many threads that can answer any questions you might have...but I suggest you just keep quiet.
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Originally Posted by Alumiyum
I get it and have never even implied that it's my way or the high way, but my perspective is that if I were still active and expected every PNM to act with grace and maturity I'd be sorely disappointed. Especially since, as I said, it's not exactly uncommon for people to behave very differently on the internet than they will in person.
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You're only making that judgment based on public posts. A whole lot more happened in unsolicited PMs.
I'm confident that those who are in a position to make future decisions will make the right ones for their organizations. That's all I'm going to say about it.
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