How to make it work?

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I accepted a bid from my second choice. It was hard walking into that room and I felt a little strange for about a week. I became friends with my pledge sisters first because we spent so much time together. It took longer to know the actives, so don't give up if you don't feel really close to them at first.

I was an active member for 4 years and as active as an alumna can be living out in the sticks. I'm so glad things worked out the way they did 35 years ago. My other choice is a terrific organization, but Chi O was the one for me. I just didn't know it after pref parties. I have always been honest about listing Chi Omega as my second choice, and I have always been thankful that Chi Omega wanted me more than my first choice did. They saw something first choice didn't see.

Be an active member of your sorority. Don't just go to meetings. Go to sisterhood events, play sports etc. You'll more than likely discover that you love your sisters and can't imagine not being their sister.