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Originally Posted by abbeydae
do you think I should say something to her? if she writes that kind of stuff on facebook, I can only imagine what she says in person. I don't want her to tell another PNM (or even worse, an active!) that "me and abbeydae are rushing XYZ!"
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YES. Just find a way to do it nicely. I would go with something like, "We really need to keep our options open so let's not talk about which sorority is our favorite in public." And make it clear that you are open to SEVERAL chapters and do NOT have a favorite yet as you haven't met them all (even if that's not true...it's a white lie and that way she will be less likely to involve you if she does slip up). People always respond better to "we" than "you".
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