Teacher fired for premarital sex?

[christiangirl]

Originally Posted by Alumiyum

There's a difference between understanding that something someone did is sinful and judging that person for what they did.

When was she judged? The school didn't pass judgement on her character (or slander her, label her with a scarlet letter, etc) they just expressed that she wasn't following the guidelines of her (extremely vague) contract and said she could not work there on those grounds. I'm not saying it's right, I'm saying I don't see a judgement in that.

Originally Posted by PeppyGPhiB

Lying is a sin. If she lied, and they found out by confronting her about the conception date later, they could have fired her for that, too. At least that's what the clause on the employment application leaves her open to.

This.

Originally Posted by Drolefille

And yes, the other option besides my preferred "LIE" is saying something like, "Are you asking me to tell you about my sex life? I find that question inappropriate for a Christian setting" or something.

Absolutely. This is the answer that would have been best, though they asked her so out of the blue, I don't blame her for giving an automatic reaction.

Originally Posted by WinniBug

NOW, I teach at a Catholic school and it's a whole different ballgame! Us Catholics, we're such lushes..lol

This made me lol.

Honestly, I think the whole thing is totally effed up but it all boils down to the contract. I hate to say it but, if it was on paper, then there's really nothing to be done, she knew what would happen. If it's not then sue away!!

[Psi U MC Vito]

Originally Posted by christiangirl

When was she judged? The school didn't pass judgement on her character (or slander her, label her with a scarlet letter, etc) they just expressed that she wasn't following the guidelines of her (extremely vague) contract and said she could not work there on those grounds. I'm not saying it's right, I'm saying I don't see a judgement in that.

They told the entire school that she got fired for fornication.

[Drolefille]

Originally Posted by Psi U MC Vito

They told the entire school that she got fired for fornication.

Which would technically be true. However there's not much detail about how that was done at this point and whether it itself is inappropriate and something she could win a suit over.

[UGAalum94]

Anyone else wonder if maybe there were questions about her relationship before the baby was conceived?

I wonder if perhaps there were some scandalous rumors and the conception date confirmed them.

Sometimes, when it appears that one course of action is just so much more reasonable, here just not asking about conception date, it makes me wonder what factors drove the decision. Sure, it could be wanting to avoid the cost of her leave; it could be that they are a certain kind of no one gets any privacy kind of Christians; but I also wonder if there's more to the story of her own behavior.

Public teachers in Georgia lose their certificates for crimes of moral turpitude, and that's about as specific as it gets. It sort of sets up the subjectivity you see here, but I think it's rarely used.

[christiangirl]

Originally Posted by Psi U MC Vito

They told the entire school that she got fired for fornication.

That's not a judgement, it's a fact. It'd be different if they told the school "You're teacher's gone because she's a filthy whore," but they didn't. Again, I don't agree in the least with how they violated her privacy but there's a difference between passing judgement and stating a fact is all I'm trying to say.

[Alumiyum]

Originally Posted by christiangirl

That's not a judgement, it's a fact. It'd be different if they told the school "You're teacher's gone because she's a filthy whore," but they didn't. Again, I don't agree in the least with how they violated her privacy but there's a difference between passing judgement and stating a fact is all I'm trying to say.

If you think there wasn't any judgment being thrown around here, you're naive.

I still think this would've been a good opportunity for the school to show an example of the great Christian concept of forgiveness.

[Drolefille]

Originally Posted by Alumiyum

If you think there wasn't any judgment being thrown around here, you're naive.

I still think this would've been a good opportunity for the school to show an example of the great Christian concept of forgiveness.

You assume they didn't forgive her. Forgiveness doesn't mean no consequences. Also you usually have to apologize, and I don't think she was inclined to. (Not saying she should have) It's only little kids who think you just get to say "Sorry" and we all pretend it never happened.

[Psi U MC Vito]

Originally Posted by Drolefille

You assume they didn't forgive her. Forgiveness doesn't mean no consequences. Also you usually have to apologize, and I don't think she was inclined to. (Not saying she should have) It's only little kids who think you just get to say "Sorry" and we all pretend it never happened.

The thing that gets me is the time period. For three weeks, it wouldn't be as noticeable. Why make a big deal about it? They could have even terminated her without making an announcement that she was a fornicator.

[Drolefille]

Originally Posted by Psi U MC Vito

The thing that gets me is the time period. For three weeks, it wouldn't be as noticeable. Why make a big deal about it? They could have even terminated her without making an announcement that she was a fornicator.

You have to look at it through their lens. It's not whether the transgression is an obvious one or not. It's whether the transgression was made. It violated her agreement and the trust the school and the parents put in her to be a moral example for their children. The fact that the school didn't sweep it under the rug because it could have been hidden actually reinforces the honesty of their opinions. Unless they've colluded to hide similar transgressions in the past they appear to be fairly straightforward on the matter.

I don't know how the announcement was made, it could have been making an example of her, it could have been an announcement, answering a question, or a statement at a PTA/school board meeting that got filtered down to other parents and students, I don't know. So while it sounds like something went wrong there, I don't know what it was or whether I think it was so far out of line that I'd be suing too.