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			No I actually have no friends.  I can't talk to my family since they are all much older and busy. So I'm real new to the relationship arena.  I only falsely believe that romance and relationships are like in the movies.  I have no real in person experience to actually see.  So yes I resort to strangers. Is that a problem?  There's no rule that I can't ask on here.  I mean its not like I would ever meet you guys and expose you to the world for shame.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	
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				No I actually have no friends. I can't talk to my family since they are all much older and busy. So I'm real new to the relationship arena. I only falsely believe that romance and relationships are like in the movies. I have no real in person experience to actually see. So yes I resort to strangers. Is that a problem? There's no rule that I can't ask on here. I mean its not like I would ever meet you guys and expose you to the world for shame. 
			
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			I have a friend who did "everything physical" with her boyfriend in the first month of the relationship and they waited to say "I love you" for a year. I say this to say that, like a few other people have already told you, every relationship is different. Some people become involved physically very early on. Some people don't become involved physically until they are married. And there are so many gray areas in-between. Good luck to you!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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 I'm not sure I understand your answer, but it's ok. I can go elsewhere on the internet for answers.
		  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	
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					Originally Posted by  1stSoon2BePhD
					 
				 
				I have a friend who did "everything physical" with her boyfriend in the first month of the relationship and they waited to say "I love you" for a year. I say this to say that, like a few other people have already told you, every relationship is different. Some people become involved physically very early on. Some people don't become involved physically until they are married. And there are so many gray areas in-between. Good luck to you! 
			
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			It depends.  Context would be nice.  You can't ask for such personal advice without us knowing more about the individuals involved. 
 
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				It depends.  Context would be nice.  You can't ask for such personal advice without us knowing more about the individuals involved. 
 
Why are you inexperienced in this arena?  Is the other person also inexperienced? 
			
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Well then I'm more interested in a general public advice. Doesn't have to be real, but just in theory advice.  
 
I don't understand your questions.  And what other person?  There is nobody else but me asking this.
		  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	
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			Good advice on this subject cannot be given without knowing something about the parties involved.  Without that information, the only correct answer you'll get is this:  "It depends."   
 
What 'it' depends on is the personalities and backgrounds of the people involved.  And by "other person," I'm talking about this individual you may or may not have a relationship with, dummy.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			wow I did not know it was that complicated to answer this question.  I am looking elsewhere for the answers and moving on from here.  I'm not in a relationship with another person. I'm just asking in general. NO need for name calling. Geez.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
				  
				
					
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