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Originally Posted by speechless10
you all just made me feel like shit.
thanks
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Really? From telling you that "Yup, we know plenty of people who pay for dues".
(I, btw, pay for my own dues. So does my sister. Our parents just expect it. We also both pay for our own living expenses. It happens.)
IF you are for real, consider (a) making the most of it (I never got why people skipped socials to hang out on their own: you're already paying for it!) and (b) stop buying the extras. You don't need them. You don't need every t-shirt, tote bag, or party favor the chapter orders.
Since when don't people have close friends in a group? I paid for my dues in college...I worked a job during the summer and winter breaks and lived very frugally so that I didn't need a job during school months. My parents would have paid my dues if my father hadn't lost his job during my freshman year. Did anyone else know that I paid my own dues? Probably not since I didn't work at school. My mom was adamant that I not work during school. She wanted me to focus on my school work. I suggest that the OP get over herself and realize that she may not know the financial situation of every member of her chapter.
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