Hope for me?

33girl · #1 04-20-2010, 06:38 PM

Alumnae initiation is NOT for women who have already been cut by the collegiate chapter of the sorority they wish to AI into. If I ever heard that one of the women we cut had managed to talk her way into being AIed, to quote my 4little, every last head would be rolling right on up to Longwood. If you've stayed in the same area and members of the chapter you rushed in college are in the alum chapter you join, WTF is going to be the LEAST of their comments.

What you propose is extremely disrespectful.

I also just saw the area you're in. Ummm, wow, you might as well go unicorn and dodo bird hunting because I honestly think you'll have more luck.

lovespink88 · #2 04-20-2010, 06:47 PM

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Originally Posted by 33girl

What you propose is extremely disrespectful. I won't get into how annoyed I am that you're sullying the Beatles with your username.

Beat me too it!!!

AOEforme · #3 04-20-2010, 08:02 PM

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Originally Posted by 33girl

Alumnae initiation is NOT for women who have already been cut by the collegiate chapter of the sorority they wish to AI into. If I ever heard that one of the women we cut had managed to talk her way into being AIed, to quote my 4little, every last head would be rolling right on up to Longwood. If you've stayed in the same area and members of the chapter you rushed in college are in the alum chapter you join, WTF is going to be the LEAST of their comments.

Especially if they had a good reason for cutting you. I'm not saying in any way, shape, or form that they did, but it might not have just been your weight. Membership selection goes way beyond your pants size.

Just because you have to make cuts does not mean that some of those cuts are not willingly done. There are several girls I would be beyond pissed to see in my alum chapter....

sigmadiva · #4 04-20-2010, 11:01 PM

Sorry for lane swerving, but beatlesfan87, have you considered non-collegiate sororities like Beta Sigma Phi?

KSUViolet06 · #5 04-20-2010, 11:07 PM

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Originally Posted by sigmadiva

Sorry for lane swerving, but beatlesfan87, have you considered non-collegiate sororities like Beta Sigma Phi?

Many times, people don't want to consider those other types of orgs because they are stuck on wanting an NPC group (and their dreams of joining an NPC from college) and they don't allow anything else to fill that niche. Not saying that BSP should be a "replacement" for an NPC, but joining an NPC after college isn't going to happen for everyone (not everyone is even going to be considered for AI). Sometimes you COULD fill that niche with a community based group, but you just don't want to open up to the idea.

ree-Xi · #6 04-21-2010, 01:11 AM

I don't get how people who have never been part of a sorority would know "how much they can offer" a sorority as an AI.

For an eye-opening experience, I suggest talking to active alumnae of sororities (people you know) and ask them just what it is they do as alumnae. Most of their efforts are focused on helping nearby chapters (if one exists) in various capacities (advising, assisting during recruitment, mentoring the collegiates), and carrying out and meeting the sorority's ideals and interests.

Perhaps you will understand what people are trying to tell you.

Why not find organizations that you have something in common with? (Yes, BSP is something you should look into - adult women who are looking for a sisterhood). Perhaps people who similar goals or interests. There are so many paths to personal fulfillment. Just find the right one for you.

sigmadiva · #7 04-21-2010, 03:14 PM

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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06

Many times, people don't want to consider those other types of orgs because they are stuck on wanting an NPC group (and their dreams of joining an NPC from college) and they don't allow anything else to fill that niche. Not saying that BSP should be a "replacement" for an NPC, but joining an NPC after college isn't going to happen for everyone (not everyone is even going to be considered for AI). Sometimes you COULD fill that niche with a community based group, but you just don't want to open up to the idea.

I see your point and I agree with you.

It's just that she asked for hope and I was just trying to give her some.....

golden435 · #8 11-02-2011, 06:49 PM

Wow this thread is something else. This woman is trying to be part of something and enhance service to her community. Why should that be looked down upon. As long as she is joining for the right reasons whats the problem. I thought the whole concept of sisterhood was enhancing yourself and fellows alike. Dont get discouraged follow what your heart tells you!!

thetalady · #9 11-02-2011, 08:19 PM

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Originally Posted by golden435

Wow this thread is something else. This woman is trying to be part of something and enhance service to her community. Why should that be looked down upon. As long as she is joining for the right reasons whats the problem. I thought the whole concept of sisterhood was enhancing yourself and fellows alike. Dont get discouraged follow what your heart tells you!!

This thread ended more than 1 1/2 years ago... I think she has moved on. You should, too.