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Originally Posted by AlwaysSAI
Being dumped usually sucks because a lot of the time the dumpee doesn't see it coming. Sometimes, I think, the dumpee knows it's coming but doesn't want to do it.
I think that being the dumper generally sucks if you still have feelings for the person. Just because you think they are better than sliced bread doesn't mean you want to be in a relationship with them. You care about them on some level and you don't want to hurt them, but you have to so that you don't lead them on--and that's the catch 22.
(I don't know if any of that made any sense....)
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Exactly. This makes perfect sense. I think in my situation, she had to have suspected it was coming though. We had too many fights for her not to know. I didn't feel I could please her because everything I did for her just wasn't enough. The gifts I bought, the time I spent with her etc. It sucks for me because I still do have feelings for her, and probably always will, but something had to give. Like you said, the last thing I wanted to do was hurt her in any way, but if I didn't it would have been the same thing over and over again. I'm not sure how much sense that makes, but if I didn't she wouldn't have either.
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