Dumpee or Dumper. Which is better?

[AlwaysSAI]

Being dumped usually sucks because a lot of the time the dumpee doesn't see it coming. Sometimes, I think, the dumpee knows it's coming but doesn't want to do it.

I think that being the dumper generally sucks if you still have feelings for the person. Just because you think they are better than sliced bread doesn't mean you want to be in a relationship with them. You care about them on some level and you don't want to hurt them, but you have to so that you don't lead them on--and that's the catch 22.

(I don't know if any of that made any sense....)