Do Sororities Really Want You To Try Again?

Originally Posted by michelle81188

I transfered to my current university as a sophomore and couldn't wait to rush. Sadly, at bid day the bid I received was from a house that I felt uncomfortable in. Nothing against them they where great but totally not me.

This spring even though the fall was hard for me I went back. I fell in love with three different houses and the girls seemed to like me too. However, come bid day .... nothing. I understand that at my school the size of the spring pledge classes are very small and I am trying to not be hurt.

Still, after all this drama I want to be in a sorority. I know I am allowed to rush as a junior even though it may hurt my chances but, do they want me to come back? My best friend (at another school) is president of her sorority and has advised me that she doesn't like when people keep coming back because they seem desperate. A different friend at my school told me her sorority really liked me in the spring but could only take two girls and to come back in the fall.

PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE!

There are some girls who think a re-rusher is desperate. However, there are some girls who really do feel for the re-rusher and see just how bad they want to be a part of a sisterhood so they encourage them to try again. We can't really say for sure if they want you to try again. We're not the ones making the decisions for the chapters on your campus.

If you think you can handle potentially being disappointed again, go through rush again.

If you don't think you can handle potentially being disappointed again, DON'T.