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Originally Posted by AGDee
I respectfully disagree, AKA. I think it depends on how it is approached. If a parent came to me and said "I don't know if you know but our children have broken up. I'm concerned about your daughter because she doesn't seem to be handling well. I wasn't sure if she had talked with you about it, but she's calling my son 30 times a day and showing up at our house uninvited and I'm really very concerned about her well being because she doesn't seem to be able to let go."
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But we ain't talking about a girl and her parents operating on all cylindars...
While what you wrote is EXTREMELY civil, what if I was this girl's parent, and I went off on you and cursed you out for accusing my daughter after your son promised the "moon and stars" to my daughter...
See, to me the issue is, the parents must be wacky because the behavior the girl manifested
did not just suddenly developed, it was honed in over time for her to irrationally think that way... Basically, an enabling an inappropriate behavior when now this girl's personal interactions and relationships are poor, at best...
Unless someone is trained and licensed to handle both the parents and the girl, then, you are just asking for unnecessary ignorance and pain...
The reality is, while Srmom does know her son the best, we all don't know what he "REALLY" said to this girl for her to fabricate a Fantasyland in her mind, thinking that it's copacetic rolling up in her house like that...
Maybe I stopped dealing with the source, anymore... EFF that... You do some illegal chit to me these days, I report folks... EFF pride, parity and equity are more important to me. I'm too old for that kinna BS... I'd rather my child, go to the HS po-po, press charges, have an investigation, and I don't care what my happens to my "rep" after that... At least the child will have somekind of help, then the boy will have to have better "recruitment skills" when he dates...
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