sex... i need advice asap!

[christiangirl]

^^^PB go to time out.

Originally Posted by cincy

and i really dont like your ass.

Seeing as how her ass isn't talking to you, I'm sure she's not offended. Take a shot at her face, maybe that'll do the trick.

Originally Posted by VandalSquirrel

I'm sure there's a facebook group or a message board for virgins in their 20s who can talk about waiting for true love (or is it true love waits?)

There are. I'm a member of a couple TLW groups, though a good portion of the people there are already married and just there to tell about how worth it the decision is when you get to the other side (and to show off their well-deserved white wedding dresses).

Honestly, being a virgin is hard work. If you've ever fasted for a day, you've had just a taste of what your body feels like when something designed for survival is being withheld--just like in cartoons where everything the starving bear sees turns into a steaming steak. What do you think happens when you're not getting any for 20+ years? Every semi-decent looking guy you pass turns into a half-naked sex god and it's all you can do not to throw him on a table and go for it. We (virgins trying to wait) have all had this moment where we try to back out of the commitment we made to ourselves and get others to "okay" it--wanting to finally have sex is common and natural. However, even though it's not EASY to resist, it is very SIMPLE--either you want to abstain or you don't. Either you want to wait till marriage or you don't. Either your perceived pureness in the eyes of God (if this is what you hope to obtain by waiting) is more important than physical wants or it's not. (I say "perceived" because holding a v-card doesn't make us any more pure than anyone else nor does it negate the fact that we've screwed up in pretty much every other venue of life anyway.) A person doesn't ask other people's advice on something so personal unless they're merely looking for someone to pat them on the back and give them permission to change their mind and not feel guilty for doing it. So if the opinions of others doesn't matter (and they don't), say "Thanks, but I can make up my own mind" and leave the thread(s) alone. Like I said in my PM, I hope you make the right choice because I don't want you to regret anything.