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Old 05-07-2008, 09:00 PM
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Seriously. I agree with you partially, women and men are very different from one another, and we don't know every that makes the other tick, but you don't agree that men are visual by nature?
Sure men are visual, but the point was that we ALL are. it doesnt have to be a contest of who's more visual. A half-nekkid man should get similar response from a woman as a man should towards a half-nekkid woman. of course all parties being normal sexual beings and hetero...
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Old 05-07-2008, 09:08 PM
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Sure men are visual, but the point was that we ALL are. it doesnt have to be a contest of who's more visual. A half-nekkid man should get similar response from a woman as a man should towards a half-nekkid woman. of course all parties being normal sexual beings and hetero...
Yes.

BTW, I'm lightweight "offended" that PrettyBoy missed the sarcasm in my post. Does he think that men are rational and instrumental and that women are emotional (and irrational) and expressive in what they do? God bless.

BTW2, I have given people exercises on (race and) gender differences. I asked them to list what makes (racial groups and) men/women gender groupings different from each other. The responses are interesting and some of them were perceived biological differences between males and females, as well as social differences. But people confused the biological with the social.
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Old 05-07-2008, 09:15 PM
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Yes.

BTW, I'm lightweight "offended" that PrettyBoy missed the sarcasm in my post. Does he think that men are rational and instrumental and that women are emotional (and irrational) and expressive in what they do? God bless.

BTW2, I have given people exercises on (race and) gender differences. I asked them to list what makes (racial groups and) men/women gender groupings different from each other. The responses are interesting and some of them were perceived biological differences between males and females, as well as social differences. But people confused the biological with the social.
that's what i was getting at in my head... i havent read the whole thread but im sure this has been pointed out. sex DNE gender. and i really hope PB doesnt think that "most men" are visual and that he is the exception to the "rule" by needing more than that. bah, whatever, at some point we ALL need those things. no one person (man or woman) can go on just on visual attraction.
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Old 05-08-2008, 06:44 PM
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that's what i was getting at in my head... i havent read the whole thread but im sure this has been pointed out. sex DNE gender. and i really hope PB doesnt think that "most men" are visual and that he is the exception to the "rule" by needing more than that. bah, whatever, at some point we ALL need those things. no one person (man or woman) can go on just on visual attraction.
tld221, I'm not saying I'm the exception to the rule. I'm just saying that some men including me must have a serious monogamous relationship with only one woman. Yes I am visual. Very visual, but at the same time, I want commitment with only one woman. Some men like looking at different body parts on women. For me it's her legs and her feet. I'm sure you all have seen my posts on that. This is important to me. I literally will not get in a relationship with a woman if she's physically lacking in the leg and feet area. She can have a great personality, a pretty face and a bangin' body, but if her feet are jacked, I'll let her know that we can just be friends or associates. I know that's shallow, but it's what I like and a must have in order for me to get involved with her. I am very visual, so I'm not singling myself out at all. You have to go back and read the whole post. I mentioned that some men are like me with the spiritual and emotional connection, but we're still visual.
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Old 05-08-2008, 06:50 PM
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Ladies, I understand you are visual, but men are more visual. In a relationship, I think that both men and women must accept the fact that we're different, and those differences will never change. We have to understand those differences and dwell together according to knowledge. I don't know what makes women tick, but I think it's important in any serious relationship to try and meet as many of each others needs (physically and emotionally) that we possibly can with the resources that we have.
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Old 05-08-2008, 07:15 PM
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....but men are more visual.
This assertion is based on........
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Old 05-09-2008, 08:57 AM
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This assertion is based on........
my opinion is that some of us are to overtly obvious and obnoxious about it....

think catcalling....
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Old 05-08-2008, 06:53 PM
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tld221, I'm not saying I'm the exception to the rule. I'm just saying that some men including me must have a serious monogamous relationship with only one woman. Yes I am visual. Very visual, but at the same time, I want commitment with only one woman. Some men like looking at different body parts on women. For me it's her legs and her feet. I'm sure you all have seen my posts on that. This is important to me. I literally will not get in a relationship with a woman if she's physically lacking in the leg and feet area. She can have a great personality, a pretty face and a bangin' body, but if her feet are jacked, I'll let her know that we can just be friends or associates. I know that's shallow, but it's what I like and a must have in order for me to get involved with her. I am very visual, so I'm not singling myself out at all. You have to go back and read the whole post. I mentioned that some men are like me with the spiritual and emotional connection, but we're still visual.
aight so say if ere'thing is a 10...and she got a corn on her toes...then what
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Old 05-08-2008, 07:02 PM
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aight so say if ere'thing is a 10...and she got a corn on her toes...then what
If it was a small corn, I would buy her some corn medication so we could get rid of it. If it looked like something hideous, we would just be friends. Her toes have to be aligned right too.
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Old 05-08-2008, 07:09 PM
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I literally will not get in a relationship with a woman if she's physically lacking in the leg and feet area.
darn, too bad for all those hot amputees. they never stood a chance huh?

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You have to go back and read the whole post. I mentioned that some men are like me with the spiritual and emotional connection, but we're still visual.
i do real all your posts actually, jarring bold, italic darkred text and all. but honestly the takeaway was "i know everything about how men operate: were visual, and way more than women!"

what are you really trying to convince us of?
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