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Old 05-03-2008, 12:59 AM
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Me and my girl been together for 3 years and living together for two. We don't have a problem at all. Everything is tight.
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Old 06-07-2008, 03:48 AM
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Thanks you guys. I read all of your comments and they were great! I've already moved in with my bf. We've been living together for 2 weeks now. I hope everything goes like we want it to. His roommate seems to be o.k. with it. The only thing I worry about is his roommate's room is right next to ours. I just hope the sound of us having sex isn't bothering him.
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Old 06-07-2008, 03:17 PM
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Thanks you guys. I read all of your comments and they were great! I've already moved in with my bf. We've been living together for 2 weeks now. I hope everything goes like we want it to. His roommate seems to be o.k. with it. The only thing I worry about is his roommate's room is right next to ours. I just hope the sound of us having sex isn't bothering him.
Never had a gf move in with a roommate, but I've been roommates with people who have loud sex (to quote one of my friends about buddy's girlfriend - "She screams like she's on fire") I'd say your best bet is to let your boyfriend handle the subject with his friend, and try to be a little courteous if you know that the roommate has something big going on the next day...
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Old 06-08-2008, 12:06 AM
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Never had a gf move in with a roommate, but I've been roommates with people who have loud sex (to quote one of my friends about buddy's girlfriend - "She screams like she's on fire") I'd say your best bet is to let your boyfriend handle the subject with his friend, and try to be a little courteous if you know that the roommate has something big going on the next day...
Yeah. I usually don't see his roommate that much. I guess he hangs out late when he's off work. He works midnights when he is at work, so I was just thinking that the loud sex may bother him in the morning. Sometimes we do it in the morning. So far my bf hasn't said anything to me about it bothering him.
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Old 06-08-2008, 11:04 AM
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The only thing I worry about is his roommate's room is right next to ours. I just hope the sound of us having sex isn't bothering him.
You know, you could always just...be quiet. The biggest fight I had with one of my college girlfriends was about that very same thing. We only lived together for a semester, but I had to tell her a few times to quiet it the fuck down. She cried! But, I'm sure she knew I was right.
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Old 06-08-2008, 02:25 PM
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You know, you could always just...be quiet.
True. That's probably the most considerate thing.
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Old 06-08-2008, 09:51 PM
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You know, you could always just...be quiet. The biggest fight I had with one of my college girlfriends was about that very same thing. We only lived together for a semester, but I had to tell her a few times to quiet it the fuck down. She cried! But, I'm sure she knew I was right.
Hahaha, the same thing happened to me EVERY YEAR I was in college. One girl just moved her bed so that it wasn't against the wall she shared with me and that helped (Gretchen, read that as a hint). But the last year, I had a huge fight with someone I'd lived with for two years. Her bedroom was two rooms away and I could hear her screaming and cussing like she was being beaten (and liking it ). I had somewhere to be at 8am and even though I told her to quiet down at like 4, they still kept going, louder and louder, till 6. That ended 4 years of friendship a week before graduation. The roomie might be bothered, but I'm sure if you keep the banshee imitations to a minimum, he'll be fine.
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Old 06-09-2008, 12:44 AM
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Thanks you guys. I read all of your comments and they were great! I've already moved in with my bf. We've been living together for 2 weeks now. I hope everything goes like we want it to. His roommate seems to be o.k. with it. The only thing I worry about is his roommate's room is right next to ours. I just hope the sound of us having sex isn't bothering him.
You knew you were going to move in with the joker before you even started this thread.
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Old 06-09-2008, 12:16 PM
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You knew you were going to move in with the joker before you even started this thread.
Yep. I'm also going to be an asshole here and give it two years tops, without a trip to the altar. Yeah, I went there.

Also, how hard is it not to have loud sex? It's not a requirement.
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Old 06-09-2008, 01:54 PM
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Yep. I'm also going to be an asshole here and give it two years tops, without a trip to the altar. Yeah, I went there.
Yep and if it does work and result in marriage, this couple will be an exception to the "cohabitation rule."
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Old 06-09-2008, 02:36 PM
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Yep. I'm also going to be an asshole here and give it two years tops, without a trip to the altar. Yeah, I went there.

Also, how hard is it not to have loud sex? It's not a requirement.

Oh snap.

It's true though. I also question the maturity of anyone who is unable to "keep it down" for the sake of their roommate.
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Old 06-09-2008, 09:42 PM
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Also, how hard is it not to have loud sex?
You must not be having good sex.
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Old 06-09-2008, 09:43 PM
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Good luck Gretchen!
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Old 06-09-2008, 09:50 PM
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You must not be having good sex.

(Some sexperts claim that "good sex" is the type that leaves you too mesmerized to even focus on all that screaming and hollering.)
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Old 06-09-2008, 09:58 PM
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(Some sexperts claim that "good sex" is the type that leaves you too mesmerized to even focus on all that screaming and hollering.)
That's afterwards.
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