Friends who disappear when they find a boyfriend/girlfriend

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Originally Posted by AGDee

The girl's mother thought, when this "relationship" started that it would last a week, two, maybe a month, like most first boyfriend/girlfriend gigs do. She's kinda freaking out now that it's been 6 months and the kid is practically living at her house. However, I think she's kind of glad they are always at HER house so she can keep an eye on them. She's generally a pretty cautious mom but she was hoping for a quick crash and burn, but the burn hasn't happened yet. And yeah, they watch TV, study, listen to music, go to movies, ice skating, etc... and when they aren't with each other, they are texting or on the phone.

Good thing they are studying and having fun but all of that is a lot for a "14 yo romantic relationship." Seems too intense.

Maybe I'm just old fashioned like my parents were.

Originally Posted by AGDee

I guess I'm sort of proud that my daughter confronted it, even though it's tense right now (because everyone is in a huge fight). At her age, I wouldn't have confronted it, I just would've talked about the girl behind her back, so I think my girlie is more assertive than I was at that age.

At her age, the girls who were doing what this 14 yo is doing were the "fast asses" and I wasn't allowed to have "fast ass" friends.

I'm glad your daughter confronted her and didn't talk behind her back. Maybe her friend will snap out of it. I hope this situation doesn't end tragically. It seems pretty intense and these are children.