Why would you not have the guts to skip a house, pnm? I rushed as a sophomore and would have dropped any house that didn't feel like one I could be with.
It's far better to drop a house you KNOW deep down you'll never feel right in instead of keeping it just so you won't be dropped from recruitment. ANY sorority is NOT better than THE sorority for you.
It's like telling someone who is a size 12/14 (me) to go ahead and buy that designer sample dress. It might not FIT, but I could do my best in trying to FORCE it to fit. But, it'll just never be for me.
Same thing. It's about finding YOUR home, not just A home.
If you try and join a group you don't really click with, you'll most likely be one of the pledge class casualties we all are familiar with. Be smarter than that.
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Welcome to GreekChat. Sorry so few of us are willing to blow rainbows up your ass. --agzg
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