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Originally Posted by 33girl
Like I said on the who was your rho chi thread, I personally would want to attend a second night anyway, just to make sure that's where I wanted to be. We gave out lots of open bids, but I don't recall ever giving one to someone who had come to only one open bid party, who didn't know anyone in the sorority previously.
But yeah, I would be turned off if some girls got a bid the first night and others had to "prove" themselves by showing up a second night. What's the reasoning behind this concept - snap them up before another sorority gets them? I mean, it seems like it would be nicer, easier and less of a cluster@#$& to give out all the bids at once.
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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06
I probably would attend the 2nd night. Besides, there's no way I'd know they were on the fence about me unless somebody told me.
Knowing my personality, it would probably freak me out if I saw other girls from the 1st night there as NMs because then I'd think they liked me less than everyone else.
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Originally Posted by ForeverRoses
For the first question, when I was in school and I would have said the group that I loved. Now I would like to think I would say the group that loved me.
As for the 2 nights of rush thing, I think I would still go to the second night of rush, but I would start to question it after I found out that some people got bids the first night while others had to come back. I would say the chapter should wait until all the decisions are made and offer all the bids at the same time. Especially since all the women will be in the same NM class- they will talk and figure out that some were chosen right away while others had to wait.
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I know it is a completely different beast (i.e. NPCs have quota and campus total), but this is something that is often done with IFC chapters. And generally with good results. That is to give bids "early" (the first possible night as it were) to the rushees already known (and voted on) by chapter members. Those rushees that are not known, they may need more time to meet the membership. However, just because their bid was extended a day or two later does not mean their bid is any less worthy than those who received it "day one".
ETA: two other quotes and to note that my comment was not directed toward 33girl (or anyone else) but just using her post as a springboard to further the discussion.
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