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Originally Posted by asa06091987
i was able to find them, and even though part of me still wanted to leave... staying meant that i had a voice, i could tell girls what i didnt like, or how i felt, and change it so that others wouldnt have the same problem... it turned out that i wasnt the only one who felt that way...and with everyones help--we are closer than ever.
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(You posted while I was typing so I didn't see it.)
This is great advice and I'm really glad it worked out for you. I went the other direction as a collegian and took alumna status (when this was still allowed) and I've had the "what ifs" ever since.
If only I had sat down with our chapter president, who was wonderful, and told her what had me so upset, I feel pretty certain that I would have stayed an active member and been able to find others who were upset with the same issues. I would have had a voice. But, now I'll never know what could have been.
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