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Originally Posted by lilly1
I hadn't because I'd read on other posts (which and where I don't remember) that it was a bad idea to openly discuss thoughts of dropping. Girls Gossip, and I just didn't want it to turn in to a bigger deal than it had to be--regardless of my decision. I came on here for that reason--to stay anonymous and have some assistance
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Do you have a big that you trust? Or something like a Chapter Relations person? Go to them and talk-- that's what they are supposed to be there for. Or did you really like your New Member Educator (pledge trainer, whatever they call them now) or even a Rho Chi/Gamma that you had. I know our Chapter Relations Chair had to keep all conversations like this confidential-- so no gossiping.
As for the let down- I think part of this is because of the shortened pledge periods. I was part of the first pledge class that moved to the 6-week pledge period (it had been 13 weeks). And we had several girls drop after Christmas break. It's like going home for Christmas made them decide to drop out.
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