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Originally Posted by gem_star17
you all have good points and have made me consider options that i didnt even know were possible ( like disagreeing with is brothers). i guess i just didnt know how much he could do for me and i just wondered if a lot of fraternities were this possessive with their members. now, we only see each other once every 2 weeks (because everytime i see him i think of his brothers) yet his brothers STILL insist on tagging along and accusse me of being selfish when i say no. after awhile, it made me worry i was really hurting their fraternity. despite what it may seem, thats the last thing i want to do.
"If it's been this way for years... I really don't understand why you've stuck around for so long." we're about to graduate and he keeps assuring me things will be different once we graduate. i remember how great things were before he joined so i want to believe him.
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It's a waste. Dump him and move on to an adult relationship. Never take promises of good things to come when a man has yet to give you more good than bad.
When you graduate from college, you'll see how ridiculous this all really was. You may also find that he's generally a coward who makes excuses and that his fraternity brothers were just one of many things that pull him away from you.
Sorry, T La Rock, LL killed it. 
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