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Old 05-18-2007, 11:24 AM
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Okay, referring back to the main topic, which is the posted video of the young cat performing a "chant": I'm not saying "What's the big deal?" because I understand all posted perspectives, but these kids (the boy and the girl) are [I'm assuming] under the age of 6! Why are some of us so defensive?; as if they're really going to wake up tomorrow in a dormitory, hit the Yard, and start joinin' in with the Kappas or Deltas, respectively. If someone refers to a child as a "Mini-whatever" or "Future This", do we have to be so critical and analytical? There is no threat to any esoterical contents of the organization! Nobody ever wore their parents work clothes when they were younger? Did you almost get destroyed because you did not take the MCat but you had on Mama's white coat? Or when Pop said, "There go my future lawyer," did people say there is no such thing because that little girl didn't complete Law school? Come on nah folks, let's just enjoy the videos!
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Old 05-18-2007, 11:52 AM
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^^^ You must be out of your raggedy skull coming in with TWO posts in 18 months (it's up above) trying to redirect somebody's convo, especially when our comments are related. If you don't understand what our big deal, just ask without trying to be smart about it...because you weren't.

It is one thing when a 3 or 4 year old is doing it because they really don't understand what they're doing.

It's another thing when an older child continues to do it and eventually starts to believe and expect that XYZ is already theirs by right for the claiming because Mommy/Daddy/etc is in XYZ. In fact, too many kids today see it as a right, not a privilege or honor that it is. The kids probably don't have the first understanding of any behind-the-scenes elements, i.e. the community service, the 2 hour plus meetings to stay organized, that members are very aware of. IMO, it's a shame when some of our fellow Greeks only expose their sons, daughters, etc. to the fun side but not the business side.

Therefore, your analogy of preparing them for a future profession that anyone has a right to pursue and expect to be doesn't quite compare to a child already believing that s/he can rep for a D9 org.
So, I can't speak for my soror, but I know I have more issue with the adults themselves, not the children.
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Last edited by jojapeach; 05-18-2007 at 11:46 PM. Reason: i just caught my typo about my issues with non-teaching grown folks at the end. Happy?
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Old 05-18-2007, 05:29 PM
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^^^ You must be out of your raggedy skull coming in with TWO posts in 18 months (it's up above) trying to redirect somebody's convo, especially when our comments are related. If you don't understand what our big deal, just ask without trying to be smart about it...because you weren't.

Plus he's a member of Kappa Kappa Psi. Not a BGLO and not in the NPHC. An honorary band fraternity. Ha!

LOL. I've NEVER seen an aspirant of any age for that organization. Of course he'd be thrilled if a child cared enough to mimic WHATEVER they are known for. Whatever it is. ()
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Old 05-18-2007, 05:38 PM
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Plus he's a member of Kappa Kappa Psi. Not a BGLO and not in the NPHC. An honorary band fraternity. Ha!
I didn't want to go there, but tell the truth, shame the devil.

I'm kinda bothered that he's in a fraternity at Howard and has to come on a website to ask his question. I don't know the dynamics of Greek Life at Howard, but he has to know at least one NPHC Greek where he could be inquisitive enough to ask that question.
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Old 05-18-2007, 05:49 PM
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I didn't want to go there, but tell the truth, shame the devil.

I'm kinda bothered that he's in a fraternity at Howard and has to come on a website to ask his question. I don't know the dynamics of Greek Life at Howard, but he has to know at least one NPHC Greek where he could be inquisitive enough to ask that question.
The KKPsi members I know from Howard have (in their minds) honorary BGLO status and act accordingly. They're "known for" wilin' out.

And I agree that while it's cute for a 4-year-old to do the chant, it's less-than-cute when a 18-year-old girl comes to Freshman move-in wearing a "Future Delta" t-shirt. Or my personal favorite, "My Mom's an AKA, and I'm Gonna Be One too!"
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Old 05-18-2007, 05:56 PM
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The KKPsi members I know from Howard have (in their minds) honorary BGLO status and act accordingly. They're "known for" wilin' out.

And I agree that while it's cute for a 4-year-old to do the chant, it's less-than-cute when a 18-year-old girl comes to Freshman move-in wearing a "Future Delta" t-shirt. Or my personal favorite, "My Mom's an AKA, and I'm Gonna Be One too!"
Not on Freshman move-in! I'd give more slack to a visiting HS senior, but if someone bought you a Future XYZ shirt, then that same someone should school that person to not wear that shirt on anyone's campus.

But seriously...do they make a "My Mom's an AKA, and I'm Gonna Be One too!" shirt? They just say silliness like that, right?
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Old 05-18-2007, 05:58 PM
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They're "known for" wilin' out.
Oh. *dozing off*
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Old 05-18-2007, 08:15 PM
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Okay...Since the replies to my comment were everywhere, I'll cover them accordingly:

JojaPeach:

First, I would like to express my gratitude to you for observing the interval and number of posts that I have had! However, I do not see how that has any weight on the content of my most recent post. Protocol, deference, etc. through the electronic medium does not apply. Nonetheless, I respect you and your views, pretty lady. Also, in what way was I attempting to re-direct your post or being sarcastic for that matter? By posing a general question? A question that clearly stated that I was not asking "What's the big deal," though you tell me to just ask you what the big deal is? I was trying to avoid "nitpicking" but here you state:

"Therefore, your analogy of preparing them for a future profession that anyone has a right to pursue and expect to be doesn't quite compare to a child already believing that s/he can rep for a D9 org.
So, I can't speak for my soror, but I know I have more issue with the kids themselves, not the children."

Who doesn't have the right to "pursue and expect to be" a member of any said organization? As much as I admire the nine historically black organizations, I do believe that sometimes there are those who may go beyond having pride and elevate themselves to an elite status among their own, similar to those described in Lawrence Otis Graham's, Our Kind of People. I agree that is is "one thing" with a 3 or 4-year old because they are not aware of all the "ins and outs" of becoming a member of these organizations...which was my point! There was no mention, on my behalf, of any older child continuing to do it and eventually start believing that "it" is their own. Notice that my post was in reference to the initial post of the young man in the video. It seems as if you skimmed my post so that you could quickly reply with a post designed for "oohs" and "aahs". The majority (not all of it) of your post was irrelevant to mine. Raggedy skulls, sarcasm, "behind-the-scenes" elements, etc....come on now.

DSTCHAOS:

"Plus he's a member of Kappa Kappa Psi. Not a BGLO and not in the NPHC. An honorary band fraternity. Ha!

LOL. I've NEVER seen an aspirant of any age for that organization. Of course he'd be thrilled if a child cared enough to mimic WHATEVER they are known for. Whatever it is. ()"

You type this as if my membership in Kappa Kappa Psi National Honorary Band Fraternity has the slightest of anything to do with any of this! All you did was state facts: Not a BGLO, not in the NPHC, and it is an honorary band fraternity. Okay, now what? I am but a single member of the fraternity who makes statements on behalf of myself and not my organization. I am not made by the affiliation. An organization exists through its members, not the other way around. And you are right, LOL, I have never seen an aspirant of any age for Kappa Kappa Psi, HAHAHA! Isn't that funny and sensible?! No. Review your statement and try again, lovely lady. And once again, you state another fact! I would be thrilled if a child were to mimic what we are known for! We are known for serving the college and university band programs.

JojaPeach again:

If you did not want to go there, and you did not go there, why go there now? Because someone else did? I respect your original intentions...Don't be bothered that I am in a fraternity at Howard! Be happy for your brother and that I am striving for excellence! I'm proud that you're doing the same! Truly. I did not have to come to a website to ask my question. My rhetorical question stemmed from the comments that were posted on this website. Unless the authors of those posts attend Howard, I don't see how I could have gotten any answers from HU or the NPHC Greeks that I know. If any of DSTCHAOS' Alpha chapter sorors who are in Howard's chapter of Tau Beta Sigma National Honorary Band Sorority, Inc. have any answers, that'd be awesome!..

Sugar08:

I'll have to speak to these members who, "in their minds," have honorary BGLO status and act accordingly. Lord knows that emulating and joining the Divine Nine is every non-BGLO members dream!
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