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Originally Posted by Alphagamuga
I agree completely. If a person were asked to leave because she violated the ideals of the group, then I think the group should work hard to get whatever lettered stuff back that it can. If they need to buy stuff back, it's worth it.
On the other hand, when a girl of good character who the group would love to keep has to drop, it's hard to see the harm in letting her keep GLO items, with the exception of the pin and the manuals, especially things she received before initiation when she wasn't fully a member anyway.
When the dropping seems purely financial, it seems like we should start a program of short term grants within the fraternity, maybe each alumnae chapter could fund a few each year.
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I hear your concern, but what about a PNM is not dropping for serious reasons. There are too many 'what ifs' don't you agree? So I would think that every PNM that does not become a member should turn over all of thier stuff to prevent the judging of wether or not a PNM is sincere or not.
I guess it is hard for me to understand since we do not get ANYTHING until after we are members.